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[–]gingercartman 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stay off your phone so he knows he has your attention
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this is great advice ! thank you :)
[–]TheGreatRandolph 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
I’m in the middle of nowhere for work, was hanging out on a boat. Interested female and I clicked over climbing, she invited me home to check out her gear / give her some advice. Within 5 minutes she straight up asked me if I wanted to have sex. I’d have appreciated a slightly less forward approach... but Alaska, and fishing town.
I declined because I’m seeing someone, but damn. If I was up for it, that would have done the trick!
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hmm tbh, i wouldn’t mind either option
[–]Madhouse221 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah like someone else said, if you’re hanging out alone in your dorm and flowing he should get the hint. This isn’t easy but RIGHT after you’re laughing or a conversation has ended grab his hand and pull it towards you while smiling and looking at his lips, taking initiative like that is sexy and allows him to initiate the actual kiss so if you’re a submissive person it keeps him in the dominate position.
[–]Stroinsk 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy already knows if he wants to have sex with you. Any single guy you know that you've spoken to at least once knows if he wants to have sex with you.
Literally just say "I'm horny. When's the last time you had sex?" What ever he answers say "that's way too long. Want me to help you fix that?" If he says anything other than outright No / refusal. He's down. Take off your top and start touching him.
[–]PiperBigBell 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That would depend on how masculine/feminine you want to be about it. If the guy you're trying to get down with isn't the masculine aggressive type, can't read signals or cues, or isn't a smooth operator, you're looking at having this dragged out to the point you're turned off. If you think he's the type of guy who's going to get down to action, just mirror what any smooth man does. Intense laser eye contact like you're peering into their soul. Playful touches, pushes. Tease him about what you think he could or couldn't do to you or other girls. Gradually shift the conversation into "crazy stories" involving sex, your turn ons, what his are. Wear something sexy. Just keep the conversation sexual without being too overt. If you really want it to go down. Just wait it out until you feel that moment of tension and kiss him.
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
..... how should i let you know i want to take things sexual?
It really depends on what this guy is like, and more importantly, what kind of relationship or interaction you want to make here.
Sometimes it's not in the cards no matter what we might want, but if it's possible with this guy, then the way you approach the whole affair will determine what sort of interaction you end up in.
If you play games, then you'll repel a guy who doesn't like to play games and attract or encourage a game playing interaction.
And so on.
There’s a guy in my dorm that I am pretty sure is interested. Let’s say we were hanging out together in my room playing a game, how can i make a move or what can i say to let him know I’m interested sexually? What would strike you the most?
This isn't really that complicated. If the guy is interested then he'll be looking for a way to make something happen also.
If the guy isn't getting the hint then you could always invite him over to watch a movie in your dorm room or something.
[–]roaphaen 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you a girl or a guy?
a girl!
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Ask him what kind of undies he prefers. Then ask what kind he prefers on girls. It should be easy to transition from there. 😁
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