Women want to feel wanted and sexy. They do not want to feel like sex workers.

This means a stripper, prostitute, porn chick, etc. Women don't want to be lumped into this category... even if they're in the sex work industry. This is feminine logic. They'll use flowery words to mask what they do.

"I'm an exotic dancer" = a stripper

"I'm in the adult film industry" = porn actress

"I'm sexually liberated" = has sex with multiple partners (sometimes at the same time)

A lot of men don't have a middle ground. They'll either make a woman feel like a sex worker, or they won't sexually advance at all. This is where the bad boy comes in and makes a really good impression.

Some bad boys have a lot of "slutty-looking" women around them. Other women who are considered "proper" will think of these men as douche bags... until they get to know them.

You see, the gift that a lot of bad boys have is they know how to make a woman feel sexy and let her go as far as she wants to go sexually. So if she's very "proper" but has a freaky side, he will usually let her be as freaky as she wants to be. This is why you'll see some proper-looking women with men who look like they're fresh out of prison or belong to a rock band or rap group.

The bad boy also surrounds himself with scantly-clad females in public. Men who consider themselves "classy" will have sex with hookers and go to strip clubs, but they will not want to be seen in public with women like this because they think they'll be considered degenerates.

The bad boy will actually take these women out, without making it seem like they're exclusive. This is why you'll hear some women who are in the sex industry say that certain guys, who look like douche bags, are so nice.

Make women feel sexy. When you make her feel sexy, she'll start sexually advancing onto you. This is why women are drawn to bad boys.

"How do I make a woman feel sexy?"

  1. Touch her like it's suppose to happen during your interaction. Make sure you touch her appropriately. This means not trying to tongue her down the first time you meet her and not trying to give her a handshake when she's waiting for a kiss. You really don't have to touch her all the time, but when you do touch her, it will leave her with good feelings.
  2. Get comfortable using sexual tension. When you are within kissing distance of a woman, you may feel so uncomfortable that you'll start shaking. If you can get comfortable with a woman from this distance, you can start talking to her, without kissing, from this distance. When you are comfortable getting as close as possible to a woman without actually advancing, she may be the first one to bridge the gap.
  3. Practice sexual discipline. The best practice to get women is restraint. If you can make her sweat it out a little bit, she'll start doing things she's never done before. While most men will jump through hoops for sex, you're laying back in the cut and enjoying your own life. When a woman isn't getting the attention she wants easily, she has to put in a little effort. If she wants your attention, she may have to come out and see you on your terms. You're sexually disciplined so she needs to find other ways to get you to validate her.
  4. Don't Take Rejection Personal. When you take it personal, you lose your confidence. Your confidence is what keeps women attracted to you. So if a woman rejects you, just take it as "no thank you" not "get away from me. I hate you". At that specific moment, she may reject you, but later, she may be trying to mount you. Why? Because rejection doesn't always mean you're not interested. Sometimes you have to turn things down that you like. If you had a huge meal and you feel stuffed, even if someone offers you your favorite dish, you'll turn it down because you don't have room for it. If you take rejection like this, you'll be happy "shooting your shot" and getting rejected than not "shooting your shot" and not getting what you want anyway. Do you know that giving a woman space sometimes builds more attraction? So if she rejects you today, and you don't take it personal, she may start having feelings for you overtime. Most of us wouldn't be here if our fathers took the rejection our mothers gave them personally.

If you learn how to make a woman feel sexy, it doesn't matter how proper she is, you'll get to know a side of her that most men have no idea it existed.