Am I in the right place?

throwaway69764 · 2019-11-02T13:44:22+00:00

The majority of guys in subreddits like r/seduction come here to mentally masturbate thinking about the kind of life they could have if they actually decided to get off their greasy asses and put in some work to better themselves. That's why you should always take everything you read on here with a grain of salt, because chances are the advice comes from someone who hasn't spoken to a woman in years but has "read ALL the books" so he consideres himself an expert.

Hmpf. Still better than arguing back and forth with strangers on the internet for hours about the new Call of Duty rocket launcher meta.

quinnmcd · 2019-11-02T14:06:37+00:00

Judging by the advice some guys give it’s obvious they don’t approach girls or been in a particular situation. We’ve been working hard removing posts that aren’t on topic or asking about a specific girl.

smoothmax · 2019-11-03T00:57:02+00:00

There aren't many field reports or lay reports if that's what you mean. Those can be pretty good for learning "stuff that worked" ... if you believe them.

I like daygame infield videos by guys who are trustworthy i.e. haven't been caught faking. Sometimes they have followup date footage too. These show you "real world" conversation and behavior which often don't look or sound like the advice you get in pickup books and courses. It's a lot more boring and mundane sounding than you might think, mostly because there is a strong vibe going on which videos don't capture. Pretty much every successful pickup or date I've ever had was the same way. I and the girl were "feeling it" and nature took its course.

"I'm not seeing much in the way of specific strategies and tactics"

It's hard to describe specific strategies and tactics because in the real world it's the vibing that mostly works. And in the cases where specific tactics are suggested ... such as comebacks for common shit tests ... it sounds cringey and guys get rubbished for suggesting them (I know lol).

TLDR this reddit is what it is ... I suggest reading a few pickup books to get diverse opinions, watch infield videos by guys whose vibe you like, learn a some technical game about banter, shit tests, cockblocks, texting and kino/escalation ... then go out and just do it.

PontusOfMars · 2019-11-03T17:29:26+00:00

I've been on Seddit since 2012, and I can tell you that there's been a shift in the posters who come here and drop knowledge. Alot of guys from the Mystery era like TofuTofu left the community to do other things, or got what they needed and went on with their lives, leaving the game theory "enthusiasts" and the information hoarders who compulsively absorb guides and posts without actually throwing their own field experience into the pot.

Check out Billy's Guides, TofuTofu's Above the Game posts, and FR prior to 2015 as they were the most detailed posts that showed actual strategies. Other than that, this sub's really just good for meeting possible wings who might chance a meetup to go sarge. Hell even put up some field reports/ lay reports for others to be inspired by.

Billy

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1db1fl/billys_guide_to_learning_pickup/

TofuTofu

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11ng7n/above_the_game_intro_my_story_preview_of_my/

Top Field Reports

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search/?q=%5BFR%5D&restrict_sr=1&sort=top

Edit: Forgot to mention the sidebar as well.

https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/ Use this link if you're on a desktop

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/

FrankyCastiglione · 2019-11-02T15:02:35+00:00

What real-world strategies are you looking for?

I've gamed all over California, the U.S. Southeast, Thailand, Singapore and many other places. For decades (as in, long before being a PUA was a thing).

Title	Am I in the right place?
Author	thizzelle_w
Upvotes	12
Comments	10
Date	November 2, 2019 11:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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