Can you share your cold-approach structure in simple words with example. This will help you to learn from others and tweak your structure. This is my structure, feel free to give your feedback:

  1. Opener: That's a nice dress, it gives a good contrast to your bag

  2. Flirting: you look like you were dreaming in wonderland from the way I saw you lying here etc. I continue guessing: you must be from French from how you are looking so artsy or elegant or whatever that comes to my mind. She would say she is from France or some other country and she asks me where I'm from etc

  3. I get into rapport and then ask open ended questions like what she is doing? What does she do back home? Why is she here etc etc

  4. Close: Then I say, I'm waiting for a friend and until I wait, we can go get a coffee and continue our conversation. Some of them say, no thanks, no I'm waiting for a friend, I need to leave soon I can't etc

  5. Then I say ok then let's meet later over a coffee and continue our conversation