I wonder if it’s a phenomenon that girls expect dates that result from a cold approach to lead to sex, more so than say a date from a neutral dating app like hinge?

Because the whole process already seem fairly playerish or “alpha” to them - that you walked up to her on the street and asked for her number. Would they expect you to be an adventurous guy who goes for the kill on the date?

Lately I’ve been having trouble getting second dates so I wonder if this might be a factor. Some girls I have no intention of girlfriending but after getting to know them better on the date I realise I want a relationship. I have the feeling that because it was from a cold approach they expect you to be the player type and bang them rather than take it slow.