So I have oneitis, but it’s not a typical situation, as in completely unrequited attraction.

So last weekend at a wedding this 9 after talking to me for 5 min started grabbing me and kissed me, asked me which room I was staying in (wedding was out of the country at a hotel). I was so shocked - this was completely out of my reality that a 9 would do this - I was thinking this shouldn’t happen! This should be much harder.

Long story short I wussed out. She sort of passed out on the sofa after another drink and her male roommate swooped in and took her back to her room.

I got her fb so I got her out a date just this weekend. But I misread the situation - I think she felt extremely slutty she said “that night was really bad”. But I went in thinking she would be super down. Basically her energy was off, I was super nervous because this is the hottest girl I’ve dated yet, and after an hr and half of drinks she said she’s tired. I tried to pull her to a club to pump her state but when I went for a kiss on the dance floor she turned away and went home. I tried to stop her (which looked needy I admit). But she went home in a cab.

I think this girl is really hot, and the fact that I was so close to closing at the wedding is killing me. I texted her again 4 days later jokingly asking her about one of her hobbies, she replied with a question, I texted back with another joke and that was it. No more.

I’ve set up a date for tonight with a 6 from tinder but I barely feel like going. I’ve been chatting to a bunch of other girls from tinder as well. Almost none of them are as hot (at least in my mind). I set up a meet with a regular fuckbuddy (7.5) on Sunday who I meet every 3-4 weeks. The usual advice is to date more girls but I think it only works when you can date girls of the same calibre. Evidently my game isn’t quite there yet. It’s crazy how stuck I am on this girl - I’ve been thinking about her so much it’s affecting my work performance.