Pros and cons of just lying there after ejaculating or going down on her/doing something for her after sex? Some say that it is better to just lie there (without sleeping) and wait for her to come to you to get some investment from her

Jennystoy · 2020-02-04T10:40:44+00:00

In my experience:

Mandatory: she cums before you. Unless she chooses not to.

That said, the notion of just stopping after you cum is a strictly male notion. Which is selfish in that circumstance and does nothing for bonding.

Get out of your head / emotions and into hers.

Communicate with her, hold her, kiss her, be gentle. This is THE time to bond, more so than before sex. Be aware of how she is reacting and adjust yourself accordingly.

Google Emotional Intelligence and think about how to apply it to your circumstance.

OwnDisk5 · 2020-02-04T13:06:20+00:00

I’m a pleaser in bed. I’ve realized a very long time ago, it’s all about the female. Period! Enough said. End of story. You need to control yourself. Give her lots of foreplay. Kiss her passionately. Rub her body. Caress her body. Play with her. Go down on her. Get her have at least one orgasm before you do. It also takes pressure off of you to last so long. Once she’s had a few orgasms, then get yours. If you want a connection that’s hard to break, after sex, hold her naked. Skin on skin. Hold her closely. Wrap yourself around her or vise versa. You’ll get far better results this way.

axe122 · 2020-02-04T14:07:22+00:00

Switch it up, sometimes I lay on back and tell her to come here in my arms. Sometimes after I cum Ill play with her pussy more but most girls view sex as being over after the man cums too. Most women want to please the man and don’t even expect much pleasure In return so if you do pleasure then they are super great full. You wanna try to get to the point your giving her orgasms just from sex without having to work at pleasing her. Your just kinda pleasing eachother she comes a few times and when you cum it’s over, then have her lay on your chest after, don’t give her the option and wait to see what she does .

PiperBigBell · 2020-02-04T15:40:22+00:00

I'll never be with the mindset that sex is purely about the woman, simply for the fact that what a man has to offer during sex is 100% required. A prolonged erection, most of the physical work, leading and directing. Men make the sex good. Women should make men want the sex to be good.

Besides this, women will forever be lost on why men just stop after sex. As soon as we cum it isn't that we don't desire them anymore, it's that our brain does a hard reset on wanting to feel or desire anything. That being said, if you want to actually retain her and you know . . Keep her around . . Stop being lazy and please her dude. Where's your sense of dominance and soul snatching?

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