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[–]fuckthisoneainttaken 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would like to help you out, but you should move on. Approach new girls, there are a lot of girls on the hallway, and maybe u ll find the one that will be better than the girl that gave u her number and doesn’t respond.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
What did you say in the text?
I’d just let her go if she doesn’t text or send a Hail Mary in 3 days if you want.
Honestly, don’t put much attention into her and put your attention towards things that you enjoy doing to better yourself and grow inner game.
[–]FuckShawnMichaels 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I just said “sup”
[–]LittlePandas101 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For all the next girls: remind her of the connection you with her had in the first text. You have instantly something to talk about. Why re-invent the wheel?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, just leave her be for 3 days and, if you want to (key words here), send her a text after those 3 days are up. If there is not a response after that, then “next.”
Don’t get stuck on her and pursue growth.
[–]Thee420Blaziken 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol no wonder she didn't respond. Like someone else said, remind her of the interaction where you got her number. I attached screenshots of this in action, granted is via a dating app but same principles apply.
http://imgur.com/a/bsNHGaW
[–]FuckShawnMichaels 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I mean you’d think she’d assume it was me, or at the very least ask who it was?
[–]WeigrafBeoulve -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"Hi gorgeous. 'your name'. Save me so you can get that smile next time my name shows up on your phone.".
Not the best 1st text but 25,000x better than saying "sup" like every other dbag she gives her # to
[–]Thee420Blaziken 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
^ sup is boring as hell. Plus she probably thinks it's just a wrong # text
[–]FuckShawnMichaels 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She could’ve asked
[–]babysmall 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i think you should wait a little longer. perhaps she will text tomorrow because she needs some time to think?
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you see her in the hallway again, just smile and nod like, she's already your friend. Don't chase her. Treat her like your friendship is already a done deal. If she decides she likes you she will gravitate to you sooner or later.
Don't get hung up on this one girl. Be the same friendly person with everyone you meet and would like to hang out with, girls and guys.
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