There were recurring comments in my posts about men saying that no matter how fit you are, you're still not gonna get attractive women if you're ugly. The reason why a lot of "ugly" men don't succeed with women (even the unattractive ones) is because they have a poor self-image. You need to stack the deck of attraction in your favor. You have to keep in mind that a lot of men get women because they're very confident within themselves, not because they're necessarily attractive.

It's always the men with the lowest self-esteem and self-image that will make the most excuses why certain men get women.

"Oh, he's good-looking"

"He's rich"

"He has a fit body"

How do you really know? The reason why a lot of "good-looking" men get women is because they're confident that their looks will attract women. The reason why rich men get women is because they know that their milieu (social environment) and status can get women to a place where they want to be. This is why a lot of rich men in their 60s have slept with more women in their 20s than a man in their 20s with a fit body and "good-looks" combined.

If you feel you can't succeed with attractive women, it's time to minimize the flaws you have that's holding you back from getting the women you want.

Aside from your face, what other features or attributes do women look for in a man?

  • Fit body
  • Charismatic
  • Well-Groomed
  • Smells Good
  • Self-Confident
  • Resourceful
  • Good Hygiene
  • Masculine
  • Entrepreneurial/Career Driven
  • Mastery Of A Skill or Talented

The list goes on, but you don't need to have all of these things at once. If you took the most important ones like Good hygiene, self-confident, well-groomed, smells good, masculine, and a fit body, that's a good start. You can build your other good attributes over time. This is why older men get hot, younger women because they keep improving themselves and become more experienced with attractive women.

So let's say you look like a swamp creature, but you have the body of a Spartan warrior, and smell really good to women. You have one negative, and two positive things going on for you. If you talk to her, and you're very self-assured, she may feel good in your presence. Knowing that your face is not your strong suit, you focus on your other strengths to attract her. After a while, your face will not matter so much to her.

I'm sure this has happened to you. There's this plain-looking or ugly woman with an amazing body and smells really good. She has sexy mannerisms and sounds really sexy. After hanging out with her, her face might not be that bad. You know her face is not hot, but you're still attracted to her.

The truth is most men who think they're ugly may just be plain-looking or slightly below-average-looking. Another thing to factor in is a lot of these types of men don't know how to talk to women and they come off as very cringey. A plain-looking man with game will have better success than a cringey man who looks like a male model. If you make certain tweaks to your appearance, attitude, personality, and increase your confidence, you'll realize that you too can get attractive women and your face won't really matter to them.