What most begginers strive for is what i call “James Bond” game. Being suave, always having a smirk, talking slowly.....
Well gentlemen here is the best advice i can give you: DONT TRY TO BE COOL.

You know what im talking about, tons of guys order drinks and sit in clubs/bars and sip it while looking around with straight face like they are not there to have an amazing time.

That is completely wrong. What you can notice in most world class seducers, we can include Russell Brand, Craig Ferguson, George Clooney... They all are childish. I mean Russell Brand needs no explanation. Watch one video of Craig and you will notice how he is high energy, listening and being interested while making girls laugh and blush all over the place. They are like golden retrievers but people. George Clooney is as suave as you should aim for. He is litteraly in the International best-dressed Hall of Fame. Yet he is very childish, he pulls pranks on everyone. Always has those eyes that are smiling.

Now that is one side of the rocking chair. And you want it to be balanced. So you have to be childish, carefree, have positive outlook on life, look for fun in everything. But still be responsible, work on yourself, be a man.

You need to have traits that are child like, have beliefs that are impossible. Like tell a girl straight up “im going to seduce you”, that kind of almost chlidlike self belief is very attractive snd charming. Dont take anything seriously, be mischievous and fearless. People like when someone is making them feel better. Also all they want is to tap into that childhood carelessness. Just have fun.

Now this is not something you have to incorporate, you dont. Everyone has different style and life. But it is generally what you need to have in order to become good with women and with people, to have an amazing time in your life.

I know if you read this you will just forget it in couple of days. So i want to give you action steps. They are more like habits and things to do in order to be more carefree and try to unbury your inner child.

-Put yourself in new experiences.
-Explore, be curious about everything.
-Sing under shower.
-Be creative, do something creative.
-Daydream about topics that are fascinating and little childish. Like time travel.
-Wear different socks just because its funny.
-Enjoy life, have fun. That is what is most important. After all, you have one life. Why not enjoy every single moment of it?

Stay safe, love you. Or dont stay safe, be dangerous and fearless :)