How i rewired my brain without even knowing it

skitts_56 · 2020-04-09T16:52:16+00:00

What you're describing is used as a tool in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, among others, called positive self talk and can be used for a variety of situations where your negative automatic thoughts are not helpful. So good job OP i'm sure people will get use out of this.

Seraphimster · 2020-04-09T12:02:03+00:00

This is a good wisdom.

REVENGEBLA · 2020-04-09T12:33:47+00:00

This is inspiring thank you for your positivity

surfinfan21 · 2020-04-09T13:54:07+00:00

I love the positivity. I'm like this in most areas of my life, except dating. I could lose my job and my first thought is, "okay, awesome, time to start my dream job!"

I don't know why when it comes to dating I get so thirsty. Definitely something I am going to keep in mind and try to focus on. Thanks!

gruntledjoe · 2020-04-09T13:24:47+00:00

I need to work on this myself.

smoothmax · 2020-04-09T17:07:36+00:00

I was prone to express a negative, sarcastic take on things when conversing with people. I was even told by a couple of hot girls, "You're so negative!" So among other fixes, I have tried to eliminate sarcasm from my vocabulary. Saying something happy, neutral or keeping quiet and not expressing an opinion is better than making a bitter wisecrack.

I don't know if this rewired my brain but it made my interactions with women significantly better. It's like there is a path in my brain that leads to sarcasm. I recognize the path as a conversational option but walk past it and choose another path.

MrMemper · 2020-04-09T20:09:30+00:00

Not taking certain aspect of life too seriously is key to happiness

Moikepdx · 2020-04-09T15:39:56+00:00

I like the image of you saying “she’ll call me”. I’m imagining you being with friends and the situation seems very different.

If I watched this, instead of thinking you got rejected, I’d be thinking you were care-free and love to mess with people. You seem funny, unflappable and confident. It also regains your power in the interaction.

Much of early game is learning not to fear rejection through repetition. This takes it a step further and embraces it as fun!

Sultmaker_9000 · 2020-04-09T15:57:33+00:00

It's true. Game for me helped me in more than many ways; calm under pressure, much more eloquent in speaking, quick thinking. Which has helped me immeasurably; gained promotions in work with more leadership ability, nearly impossible to get knocked of centre- no being emotional.

The only negative thing that you get from game, is your disgust and contempt for women, the better you get. Women lose any mystery or allure to you, they come as the next wet hole for you. It's like you are breaking the matrix, having access to areas you were never meant to see.

maddisser101 · 2020-04-09T18:26:59+00:00

Name checks out. Small changes have big results.

Veilus · 2020-04-10T01:15:50+00:00

I try to make a joke out of everything I can. Because of that it's usually shitty puns but they're clever shitty puns...if they don't fall flat. But I even find that amusing. The way I try to look at things is I can't "lose" if I'm honestly laughing. Even when receiving criticism I'm like "idk what's up with you, but I thought that was funny".

PachymuNyet · 2020-04-09T20:55:20+00:00

That's awesome -- another Post-It on the bedroom mirror: "Keep it playful!"

Mr_82 · 2020-04-10T00:41:42+00:00

I'm a bit confused about what you were really trying to communicate with that second-to-last block. Not ever thinking or acknowledging when bad things happen can be really bad for you too, and will make women think you're kind of soft or a pushover, then leave you. But yeah, you pretty much have to really, truly literally, not care to succeed in dating as a guy. (Though if you truly don't care, why date anyway?) Even then, that's necessary, not sufficient.

Happy_Soup · 2020-04-10T02:30:31+00:00

Awesome analysis. It's how we relate to and show up in life. And by we I mean the Ego. You're not gonna get butt-hurt but you can choose your response. This applies to all areas. Such ego conscious rewiring in the context of seduction here might apply elsewhere. In this you can become a more well-rounded individual as you refine your skills and live life.

The best place to do it imo is not from a stance of hacking reality with PUA techniques, but instead from the centered self so you can live and respond with genuine authenticity. Instead of faking it till you make it, you can instead be it. Such a vibration and energy is felt and you'll wear it all over you and emit it as it resonates within your core and they'll absolutely love it.

I understand sometimes for some people the leap is how we learn to fly or that faking it till we make it is how some can become it. In the context of OPs example, it seems that the same fun and joyful ego is gaining authentic traction in other facets of life outside of seduction but also with other people as seen in the case of the spilled drink. This basis of self-improvement is spirituality really. Or reality if that word is cheesy from your Ego's point of view.

Another comment mentions CBT. Self talk resonates from within and you'll wear it too. This rewiring will establish new roots in your subconscious.

Reaver_ · 2020-04-10T01:44:59+00:00

Destroy your bad thoughts with positive ones. That's a solid mantra right there.

shetyeomkar2 · 2020-04-10T05:32:20+00:00

5 month ago I joined as trainee analyst in a R&D lab. What I noticed was many of my colleagues and seniors are very anxious while doing their jobs consequently they waste a lot of time to complete the easiest of tasks. Sometimes they keep rechecking the things cause they don't want to make any mistakes. I being a trainee analyst have made many mistakes but I have learnt from them and improved myself. But I never took it too seriously. I was calm even when I knew I fucked up. Many times my seniors told me that I don't take things seriously and that's not good. They criticized me a lot. But I haven't changed. I think we should be confident about our ability to perform the task. Making mistakes is normal. If you are learning from them then even better. What do you guys think?

mejakejohnson · 2020-04-10T07:39:49+00:00

Thank you for sharing, man! 🤙🏽♥️

EternalJourney · 2020-04-10T12:19:40+00:00

People keep underestimating what big an impact inner game has on seduction. It is the conditio sine qua non of GAME.

2020-04-09T13:57:13+00:00

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TaichoOoz · 2020-04-09T15:57:09+00:00

Get this man a shield

McPugg · 2020-04-09T15:33:51+00:00

sigma_1234 · 2020-04-09T16:38:16+00:00

Needed this. Especially in a job hunt when the economy's going down.

__am__i_ · 2020-04-09T16:39:28+00:00

Indeed.

Something I have been practicing recently. When I am faced with a situation where generally I would be embarrassed-- like something in office, where my work is challenged which I could take an attack on my skills (an extreme example)-- I laugh and shrug it off like silly of me to do this and quickly suggest what to do next to resolve it.

FearNothingButFear · 2020-04-09T16:23:58+00:00

PMA vs NMA (Positive Mental Attitude vs Negative Mental Attitude) Audiobook: Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude by W. Clement Stone & Napoleon Hill https://youtu.be/Z_xZGCuTznQ

Title	How i rewired my brain without even knowing it
Author	QuantumShit00
Upvotes	857
Comments	50
Date	April 9, 2020 11:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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