For the ones who have had a lot of success: do you still sometimes feel like certain women are out of your league?

hunterpua · 2020-06-01T19:47:56+00:00

No, not anymore.

This is not because of how many women I've been with or how beautiful or "high value" they are but because of the fact that a big reason I've been with so many women is because I was trying to really understand the psychology behind dating and seduction and learn what it takes to be appealing to absolutely anyone.

I've always said that if I didn't want to really understand this stuff, I would have started looking for serious relationships after building up experience with about 30 girls.

I love romance and feeling in love and all that stuff. In fact, I'm in a serious relationship right now.

But this is not to say that I will get absolutely any woman on the planet. I just don't feel like anyone is out of my league because for one, I've gotten to know so many of them and learned that they're all human.

No matter how externally amazing they seem to be, if you get past their facade and get to know them well enough, you'll realize that they're just like you and me.

Also, I've already achieved my goal and learned what it takes to attract any woman but that isn't a one size fits all magic pill, its different for different women.

For example, what it takes to attract a broke college girl is extremely different to what it takes to attract Ariana Grande.

I do believe that Ariana Grande or whoever super rich and famous and beautiful girl is attainable for guys like you and me but I also know that I won't be willing to do what it takes to get a girl like her because unless you're a celebrity on her level, it'll take a shit ton of work and I'm not a celebrity at all so I don't wanna put in that much work for a girl I don't even know.

I mean, if Jeff Bezoz said he'd sign over Amazon to me if I succeeded then I'd probably be willing to put in the effort it takes to get a celebrity. Haha

But short of that...nah...

Impressing her or whatever isn't the hard part, when you're able to get access to her it'll be pretty much the same with any girl.

Its the getting access to her part that's hard. And I don't mean being able to talk to her when she's at an autograph signing or as a lucky VIP fan who gets to meet her backstage.

I mean to have friends in her network, to be invited to the events she gets invited to, basically for it to make sense that you're always around people like her because you're supposed to be there.

Once you're in that position, she's just like everyone else but the amount of networking and people you have to win over to get to that position is pretty crazy and I promise you, sex with her likely won't be any better than sex with the broke college girl and the odds of you having an amazing relationship with her are pretty much the same with the odds of having an amazing relationship with a girl who you can just have access to by going up and saying hi.

oldparras · 2020-06-01T18:58:20+00:00

After some up and downs I was able to recover my confidence. Which is enough to think that no woman is out of my league.

Anyways, after some practice succeeding and failing in trying to seduce women, you learn to read body language and to tell if a woman is just not interested.

Thus, if a woman is not interested it doesn't mean she's out of your league, it just means no matter how attractive you are to MOST women, it doesn't mean you are gonna be to ALL of them.

STD_Tyler · 2020-06-02T00:06:58+00:00

Yeah man, there were times I was dating 3-4 girls at the same time, fucking them in rotation but still feel miserable I can't date the girl of my dreams. After 2 years of approaching I am still searching for her..

Title	For the ones who have had a lot of success: do you still sometimes feel like certain women are out of your league?
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Date	June 1, 2020 6:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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