Does hooking up with other girls in your social circle increase or decrease your value in the eyes of another girl your hooking up with?

this_ismy_username78 · 2020-07-17T23:52:56+00:00

In my experience is a good thing

dickstellar · 2020-07-18T01:32:41+00:00

First of all you’re the fucking G.

Yes it definitely makes you more attractive in other girls eyes. It’s simple pre-selection.

How this translates to your chances with multiple girls within your social circle is a bit more complicated.

Rationally it should put a girl off you because they don’t want to be a second choice, right? It might honestly. That makes it harder for you to build some sort of relationship with the second one if they have that mental resistance.

But I don’t think that applies if you’re at a party with them for example, because then you’re both already there.. instead of her having to say yes to meeting you.

On top of that I could be wrong about this but I honestly think girls have this subconscious competitiveness with other girls. Her value might feel stripped by you getting with someone else which might trigger a strong feeling of attraction towards you.

I asked a good female friend about this and she said that she thinks girls would be competitive if they find out AFTER they have gotten with you because then it’s some territorial type shit.. but if it’s just the talking stage it might put them off.

My personal opinion is if they find out after it gives them more right to get angry about and label you a manwhore... but fuck this is really all theoretical.

I’d love if you just went for it for the life experience, and let us know how it all works out

Internet_is_a_tool · 2020-07-17T22:50:07+00:00

social circle....... ?

SpagooterCooter · 2020-07-18T12:12:02+00:00

So long as both are aware, and okay with it, it shouldn't matter. Just wear a rubber, you never know who has stds and you probably don't wanna knock anyone up.

manonpoint_com · 2020-07-18T15:43:11+00:00

Generally, good thing, but you absolutely can overdo it and have it backfire.

NCreature · 2020-07-18T19:49:58+00:00

I think you just go for what you want and let the situation sort itself out. You clearly don't care much for how these girls feel about you anyway, what difference does it make?

Yes, generally speaking, the ability to own a social circle this way is a good thing, BUT, there's a good chance it can blow up in your face especially if the girls aren't aware of each other. So if you're okay with burning the whole damn thing to the ground (lets assume these are not co-workers but just people you can afford not to have around if it comes to that) then have at it. If they are coworkers STOP RIGHT NOW unless you don't care about your job or career or reputation. Otherwise you probably need to try and man up spin those plates correctly.

rickyroyal37 · 2020-07-18T20:47:16+00:00

If you're running social circle game, do things behind close doors. It's fine of people talk about it but you always want to maintain a level of deniability.

_Valeria__ · 2020-07-18T11:59:56+00:00

For me personally, it would be a turn-off, especially knowing that you had a fling with another woman in our social circle. There would always be that tinge of worry in the back of my mind, and I want to be someone’s sole focus of interest. (I’m personally not a one-night stand woman anymore, so that’s where my mind is when I gave my opinion on this )

Title	Does hooking up with other girls in your social circle increase or decrease your value in the eyes of another girl your hooking up with?
Author	Internet_is_a_tool
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	July 17, 2020 10:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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