Men,

As you probably know, one of the biggest reasons guys fall in the FRIEND zone is because they do not flirt. They treat the women as a friend and they fall in the friend zone. I have made this mistake too often.

I wanted to share a few ways to flirt so you can apply these when you meet a women. It is so much harder now to meet girls cuz of covid. it is annoying. Anyways, remember... you don't need to be perfect. So, don't put pressure on yourself.

So, you don't need to be perfect. So, first thing to remember is to relax. Don't be so serious. So many people are always so serious. Even when some guys talk to a girl that is into them, they are too serious. Loosen up and get in touch with your inner child. it will make it much easier to be fun and playful.

Second thing is if you have a hard time making things playful, realize you hold the power. You have the power of questions. You can add a question that is ridiculous and obviously playful. Like, would you ever go to a nude beach in France? This add some sexual tension in the interaction.

Third thing is to maintain eye contact when you're talking to her. This is so simple and necessary. You can increase the intensity of your eye contact sometimes to flirt nonverbally. Make sure to not creep her out by balancing it. you have to look at her comfort level and adjust. That is what a good communicator does. Makes sure the other person is comfortable.

Fourth thing is to just be physical and animated. This can be you acting out things while you're in conversation. This can be you doing things that include touching or getting closer like taking a silly picture together with stupid faces. This can be you playfully slapping her hand. You have to find your inner child and have fun.

Craig Ferguson had some great interviews. When i was younger, i would watch this dude all the time to improve my communication skills. I just made a video where i go over his interviews where he is flirting and explain a few ways to flirt. That way, people get to see it in action. Check it out if you got time...

Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNGKgSLlHss

Peace!