Is cunnilingus/oral sex performed on women really as rare in hookups/relationshios/marriages, as women online claim it is?

fluffyowl55 · 2020-08-20T16:03:07+00:00

Luckily I have never had this problem with a guy. Thank God That would be a deal breaker

appmanga · 2020-08-20T16:47:37+00:00

Everybody's different in term of what they're willing to do sexually. I think it's fair if a guy not doing oral is a dealbreaker for a woman. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who refuses to perform BJs. I can't speak for others, but I don't find anything gross about vaginas. I like women, and I like sex. Part of the fun part of sex is pleasing your partner.

I've had gay friends, but, as with my straight friends, we've never discussed their sex lives.

Umbran_scale · 2020-08-20T16:02:07+00:00

I'm a virgin, so my opinion is widely subjective and I'm probably in the minority in terms of sexual interest due to preferring women in charge, so I like the idea of performing cunnilingus, however the idea of receiving fellatio does not appeal to me.

2020-08-20T15:31:21+00:00

I give more than I receive

ImmodestPolitician · 2020-08-20T17:18:19+00:00

I'd guess gay men prefer BJs because they don't require preparation but anal sex does? Also a penis is the most masculine part of a man so they probably fetishize it

I have slept with women that wanted me to wipe my face off before kissing them after cunninlingus.

Some vaginas smell like a dumpster and the owners don't realize it. Panty hose can definitely do that.

2020-08-20T17:20:32+00:00

Probably not the best subreddit for your question. Imho general tendencies are not super relevant. Your needs and your partners needs count. If cunnilingus really is that important for you, you need to find a man, who likes it too, no matter how seldom, guys, who are into it are. I don't think they are that seldom.

Gent_Scholar · 2020-08-20T18:42:57+00:00

I really enjoy going down on women, and have never understood guys who aren't into it. That's in a hookup or relationship.

recyclablebanthas · 2020-08-21T06:52:44+00:00

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I didn't know there was so much inequality in the bedroom. Women seem to give blowjobs way more/they are expected.

While I have sympathy for your experiences in the bedroom and I'm sorry you've had negative experiences with apparently selfish men.

However, your experiences do not have any bearing on the subject of people trying to figure out how to date.

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Are men just not that into vaginas or see them as a means to an end.

Again, you may be describing the men you have been involved with, but this does not describe all men.

A lot of guys love giving oral sex.

Jamesdoink · 2020-08-21T09:43:16+00:00

They never have to ask me I absolutely love eating pussy 😋😋😋 yummy

huggiesdsc · 2020-08-20T17:26:41+00:00

I don't like eating girls out. Unless she is extremely attractive, then I crave it. Or we are dating, then I will do it to make her feel good. But if I just met the girl and we gonna hook up, hell no, I'm not eating her out. There is nothing in it for me, I rather just pump and dump, that way at least we both get off. But also I can only cum from masturbating so it just ends up with me fucking till I get tired. I'll take a blowjob though but that's mostly visual. Unfortunately, I have never been with a girl who knew how to suck dick so I don't mind not getting a blowjob.

2020-08-20T15:29:41+00:00

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Title	Is cunnilingus/oral sex performed on women really as rare in hookups/relationshios/marriages, as women online claim it is?
Author	PENISVAGINAHATEDMORE
Upvotes	7
Comments	36
Date	August 20, 2020 3:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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