can you be too high value for a girl

mydeardroogs · 2020-08-29T00:51:37+00:00

can you be too high value for a girl

Yes, of course. Whether or not that's what's going on here isn't actually clear.

she never texts first or anything.

It really doesn't matter if she texts first or not, none of that is a real indicator of anything. It could mean anything from she thinks she's better than you, to she's too scared to initiate because she afraid of rejection because she really likes you. It's a useless metric.

she acts all small and smiley ( like a younger sister basically)

Just because she likes you and is acting all cutesy doesn't mean you should write her off or get too in your head about being better than her. It might just be that she likes you, and is too anxious to express herself normally.

(shes a bit of a nerd)

Oh how embarrassing! imagine what your friends at school will say!!

C'mon dude. Why does that actually matter?

whoareyouinside · 2020-08-29T00:20:31+00:00

I think you may need to give more detail. What makes you "high value" compared to her?

rhofire · 2020-08-29T00:19:46+00:00

is it possible that I'm too high value for her ( shes a bit of a nerd)

Nah, it's not. You seem to like her but haven't made any move. You also believe she'd text first. Women don't value guys like that highly.

PiperBigBell · 2020-08-29T01:55:36+00:00

What you are describing is not a value conundrum. She's simply acting submissive around you. Meaning, she's in her feminine state. Allowing your dominance to shine, showing you that she's willing to let go and submit to your masculine frame. If a woman acts really suhmissive around you, this is her biology at work telling her that you're high value and she should possibly give herself to you.

Now, that being said, if you're not acting sexual or flirty around her you can never be sure. The clearest indicator of a woman's interest is her complying with requests you make, sexual, favor, petty, or otherwise (women were designed to serve high value men). The second biggest sign, is she's yielding to your sexual advances.

Meaning, she let's them happen. She softens up, opens up, gets weak around you, let's you in. I could go on but that's another topic. A truly submissive, feminine woman, does not make the first move. Not only are they scared, but it looks agressive to men of value who are extremely dominant. If you don't make advances you're wasting your time. It doesn't matter if it causes her to lose interest. You have an answer.

Now, to your question. Yes you can be too high value. And what that means, is that she can't believe that a guy as high value as what she's facing is legitimately into her for any other reason than sex. Like leo dicaprio picking up a hoodrat off the street. It wouldn't make sense to her.

Now there are plenty of girls who one could be too high value for, but they don't run because they are also just looking primarily for sex. Girls who run are typically viewing you in a relationship mindset. This is not good. You want to confirm her sexual attraction first, then build over time.

Other reasons a girl could run from high value include: your value shines a light on how she doesn't have her shit together, your value makes her feel stupid, she's actually wired/imprinted to fuck and submit to low value men because of her previous dating habits. So yea, you need to run that fucking game on her before you start thinking if you're too high value.

2020-08-30T00:15:10+00:00

Yes it’s possible you are but it looks like she has the serious hits for you.

She won’t text first, it’s up to you to escalate.

Title	can you be too high value for a girl
Author	d_thstroke
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	August 29, 2020 12:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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