I have been day gaming for a while and last one month I didn't do much. I observed something very interesting. When I was regularly day gaming 3 thing happened: (i) my communication skills spiked up and I was becoming more funny and socially active. I was more funny, more cocky, and confident. (ii) talking to strangers was becoming a habit. As I am naturally a shy person but outgoing, talking to people everyday trained me how to talk to people when it is necessary. Being naturally shy, I had problem opening up but day game helped me to handle it (iii) I was really frustrated with number of flakes. It is justified, I understand why the girls flake and I don't blame them, me, or day game at all.

But when I stopped daygaming I am kind of going back to square one and now even in bar and in social group (when the girl is giving me clear IOI) it is kind of tough for me to approach or hit on her. It is weird.

So reason I am posting this is because although daygame is very frustrating in terms of flakes but talking to strangers everyday (3 a day) will keep your momentum and shyness in control. It is like going to gym, if u don't hit the gym for a month or two you start loosing the gains. I think daygame might be frustrating in term of lot of flake but it is good for yourself to be more comfortable with uncomfortable situation. Keep doing it every day a little bit (15-30 mins a day) not for getting laid (lol) but to train urself to talk to strangers all the time.