Where do I even start?

dambachern · 2020-09-25T01:36:38+00:00

I’m active but I don’t go to the gym. I did not graduate college, and though I’m financially stable and debt free, I live modestly and don’t have much money or assets to my name. That said, I have no trouble attracting women. Not ALL women, of course, but few do. I love the life i live, I love who I am, and I believe in my ability to sense a genuine connection enough to not worry when it doesn’t occur. At square zero, what you need to know is that when the attraction is mutual and real, you just have to let it happen. Stop thinking or planning or analyzing. And for god sakes stop seeing with only your eyes and start reading the energy between you. Surrender to nature, and let the energy decide. True game is about knowing you both are worthy of love, respect, and sexuality no matter what. That way, when it does happen, it’s that real transcendent sex based on connection. Nothing’s hotter than that

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-09-25T04:38:03+00:00

If you're just starting literally just start interacting with women. Dont even try to date them and dont be picky. Talk to attractive/ugly women and just get used to being around them.

The main problem dudes have is we get nervous around women we like and act differently around them. You have to be able to treat that hot girl like shes just some regular girl you dont have any interest in romantically.

You do that by getting used to being around women in general.

learniy · 2020-09-24T23:46:19+00:00

For me it's all about modeling effective people, I have people in my life who show types of attraction I want to embody. A good example is I have a friend who is touchy and I'm slowly copying it. However I think the best thing you can do is a mix of cold approaches since they have the most risk, another is to try flirting with not only females your interested in but rather all girls simple things like compliments and small touches.

Tldr cold approaches and getting used to talking to girls in a flirting manner

QuantumShit00 · 2020-09-25T09:57:32+00:00

I’ll be quick. I suggest reading Models by Mark Manson and sidebar here at r/seduction. While doing so start going out more with mindset of having fun. Once you have fun you will see some girls and just apporach them. Start by just talking to them, take it from there. Once you say “Hi” you already won. Use the things you read in book or here on sidebar.

Also, every day you should be better then you were yesterday.

Quick search on seddit and you’ll find similar questions asked as yours. Lots of good advice there on where to start.

Good luck!

alexchasekamikaze · 2020-09-25T09:04:39+00:00

having contact with girls should be something you do literally daily. At most, in the 7 days of the week, you should have 1 or 2 days, be days where you didn't talk to a girl you haven't met before.

Start by just saying hi to one girl per day. As a bare minimum

Liberaler · 2020-09-25T11:36:34+00:00

Start by asking yourself, what you want in life and what your values are. That has to be the starting point.

alerinn · 2020-09-25T08:30:20+00:00

Here is the best advice you will ever get. Be honest. With her but mainly with yourself. And thats it. You dont have to study cold approches and shits like that. If you embrace this, you will never come back from date without knowing you give it the best shot.

Title	Where do I even start?
Author	alotofmoney451
Upvotes	13
Comments	12
Date	September 24, 2020 11:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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