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I'm a 25 year old Asperger male living in America. My hobbies are breakdancing, yoga, lifting weights and Latin dancing (or anywhere with a dance floor.) I never chat with girls outside of Latin dancing because when I did it never lead to anywhere so I stick to the Latin dancing. Plus I feel a persona taking over me while Latin dancing. When I talk to girls normally I feel this invisible thing talking to them.

I lost interest/discipline in most passions I mentioned because I'm not getting laid. I'm slowly getting back into them, then I think what's the point? (Plus if a cute chick did yoga or some sort of hobby she'd be amazing and everyone would be curious about it.)

Why do men always have to be better in every way? Nothing is ever damn good enough for women.

I am working on myself but I feel nothing is ever good enough. I'm working on getting a driving license, studying for my online course, maintained my physique, have a place of my own, looking for work once my degree is done... Again women can just look cute or even average and they'll get all sorts of perks and attention for free. Not to mention they have so many options when it comes to sex/friends/"beta orbiters*.

We need to love ourselves respect ourselves, look good, maintain our look, work hard in life, work hard for a good job, need a car, money etc and still not get sexual attention. I'm so sick of living life as if I'm invisible. It's so unfair Holy Hell.

Women could just look cute and get that for free. No one will give a shit if they accept the self or not etc because they are liked mainly because of looks. And knowing I'll never be a cute girl makes me sad.

I would like a relationship but that needs two people to give each other the time of day. I rarely get eye contact from girls for that matter so I couldnt even hope for one. So I settled for sex which I'm not getting anyways. Knowing I'll never be a cute girl makes me sad.

I'm desperate to figure out how to get laid. I've been getting more kisses at the club but that isn't leading to sex. Sex is only a big deal when you never had it. (or in my case I paid for it but you know what I mean.)

If I don't try hard enough I'll get less chances than I do now (which is still nothing).

If my current self is good enough to get laid then it would have happened.

I need to know what you guys think because most people I discussed this with don't seem to agree with what I'm saying. Especially when it comes to the "Girls just have to look average/cute idea to get sex or all sorts of attention."