How to become charming?

NateHate1402 · 2020-10-18T23:39:11+00:00

I would say a combination of attention, “warmness” and calibration.

Attention as in solid eye contact and truly listening to what the other person is talking about and consciously thinking of questions about it. This shows you value their point of view and makes them feel like the only person in the room, which we all love.

Then there is “warmness” which is hard to describe but a clear example of a master of this is Paul Rudd. A genuine smile goes a long way in being charming imo.

And then finally calibration. In this regard it’s just responding correctly in the social situation. E.g don’t be too physical or sexual in a first interaction as this just seems awkward and certainly not charming. This also includes making a joke when the situation calls for a more serious comment or being to serious when the other person is joking around. Fortunately paying attention will fix this for the most part

Just my two cents.

backagainforthe1time · 2020-10-19T12:06:50+00:00

That’s because having a nice body n being tall doesn’t make you attractive to women. You need to have an attractive face, amazing adventurous life.

bemore_ · 2020-10-19T15:40:38+00:00

Make them feel good about themselves

Title	How to become charming?
Author	ajejejebrazocrew
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Date	October 18, 2020 11:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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