I am a boring person. Do i even have a chance?

Captain_w00t · 2020-11-07T12:32:19+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

monked80 · 2020-11-07T11:02:32+00:00

Serious question, do you enjoy being boring? Like, while you're spending the evening on the couch watching the wall or whatever, do you think "nothing could ever beat this!"?

Schhwing · 2020-11-07T09:49:08+00:00

No you have low self esteem. Fix that and you’ll be sweet

TheDevilPutD · 2020-11-07T10:15:55+00:00

Well, you are not going to get a girl by feeling sorry for yourself. Set some goals to find interesting hobbies and start working on your social skills.

Then there thing is most guys underestimate themselves. Actually it's women that have very boring lives. As long as you can be a little more exciting than that, you are in. Look at your past, see where you've been and measure where you are now. I bet you have made a lot of progress in many different ways. Start feeling good about that progress instead of thinking what you lack. Focus on what you have and what you have gained in your life and what you would like to gain in the near future.

tibles20 · 2020-11-07T10:18:04+00:00

No you are not screwed

monked80 · 2020-11-07T11:00:33+00:00

Whet's to fix? So you're boring. So are a lot of people. So what?

renegade453 · 2020-11-07T18:12:02+00:00

I highly suggest you go abroad for 1 year, maybe australia, and find yourself there. I have a good female friend who sat in the same boat as you and after she came back from a backpacktrip to australia a year later, i could barely recognize her personality again. All this bullshit i read in the comment section so far really wont help you. You need a trigger to change your perception of life. This wont come by just telling yourself how great you are doing if its not the case.

Title	I am a boring person. Do i even have a chance?
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Upvotes	3
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Date	November 7, 2020 9:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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