Got a bad sex review. Looking for advice

2020-11-12T21:29:27+00:00

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runawayfast999 · 2020-11-12T19:12:45+00:00

Uh... i feel like she already said. Specifically, YOU DIDN’T GIVE HER AN ORGASM.

This is not rocket science. There’s only one answer. She felt like after all the direction you still were unable to do it and unlikely not able to do it like she likes it.

btrpb · 2020-11-12T19:56:49+00:00

Whatever the fuck she was into, you fucked her twice and she didn't come once.

So yeah, you might think so is good, but she obviously doesn't like the vibe.

Sexual chemistry is a thing, it doesn't necessarily mean you are shit, just not a match. Then again, maybe you are shit. Ask yourself, how much did you calibrate to her? If she was telling you what to do you obviously weren't figuring out what she likes.

runawayfast999 · 2020-11-12T19:50:51+00:00

Lol.

Men’s suggestions: be more aggressive, spit on her, degrade her more, yada yada

Women’s one and only suggestion: give her an orgasm.

I am going to venture a guess who’s advice he’s going to ignore. Clearly there’s been a precedent of ignoring exactly what women are telling him....

paul101111 · 2020-11-12T19:11:20+00:00

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Tower-Scary · 2020-11-12T20:05:12+00:00

Bruh you still hit it. Twice. Give yourself a pat on the back. Then go bust down on other chicks until you cant remember what she looks like. Who cares if she had an orgasm or not? Stop caring so much about what she thinks of you and start thinking about the next chick you're gonna dick down.

Edit: Love that this is getting down votes. Apparently some of yall are living in a world that revolves around pleasing women.

BruddaRed · 2020-11-12T19:52:24+00:00

Based on the information you provided, I'd say you did nothing wrong. Unless this is a continuing pattern with multiple different women, then I wouldn't worry about it.

Don't get too strung up on her dippin out, it was just your turn and now it's some other guy's turn. Onto the next!

I also want to add after looking at some of the other comments. Don't let this get to you, experience comes over time, so the next time you fuck, don't psych yourself out thinking you're not going to meet expectation. Just enjoy yourself, enjoy the moment, and have fun.

appmanga · 2020-11-12T21:10:19+00:00

Did you lick it before the dick it?

Title	Got a bad sex review. Looking for advice
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Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	November 12, 2020 7:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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