So I would call myself a natural. I don’t run routines and don’t stick to game plans. Sure I’ve picked up a few things from my years engaging pickup material like the freeze out or push pull but I don’t do those things intentionally with the expectation of an outcome. I am very charismatic at take almost nothing seriously when talking to girls. It usually goes like this: however I get into the conversation, I would then pivot it to being sarcastic and having fun; as I do in all my social interactions. And women love this. And because of this behavior I never concerned myself with “status”
Now in my time interacting in this community, I meet a lot of guys who are all about “status.” The bros who are always talking about their “business ideas” ising cliches like “work hard play hard.” They need to go to night clubs, they need fancy events, they need a rooftop apartment, they need to try and build a network of promoters and models and all that other stuff. They use their status as their draw.
I am not knocking those guys. I just don’t get down with that. I put myself out there as the most fun person you’re going to meet that day and all the other stuff I don’t make it a factor. I am the draw. Those guys a lot of the time are very basic and not that fun. All the great things about my life that are typical status things I don’t put that out there. I have no desire to pull a girl off the street and then tell her about a club where I know a promoter or about my luxury building apartment (don’t have those specific things but hypothetically). I AM the selling point. Me, my infectious, flirtatious personality.
And maybe I am missing out on something. Maybe if I made those things priority i would get more 10s....or maybe I could get more 10s by workin on myself more and realizing I am good enough for them.
But what do you guys think. Is status bullshit or am I missing something
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