Blocked immediately after first date

2020-12-18T14:30:36+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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Zcuzz · 2020-12-18T07:43:08+00:00

If I had to take a wild guess, these chicks are expecting you to seal the deal and fuck them but you take too long and they decide to quit wasting their time.

You talked for two weeks and had her over at your place. You should've made your move.

ClemPrime13 · 2020-12-18T06:51:02+00:00

Forget her and move on, not worth your time, or mental energy.

MistahUndaCova · 2020-12-18T08:12:51+00:00

I hope that every girl you asked out on dates aren't from these dating apps. Approach women in person instead. It can be done in times like this even when everyone's wearing a face mask. If you're having so many "failures", I would suggest working with a dating coach or even a pickup artist. They'll be able to pinpoint the areas you'll need to touch up on. You should try audio recording your dates and then go back and see what areas you can improve in. Maybe you're mentioning your ex's? Maybe you looked like a complete different guy in person? Maybe your interests are completely opposites? Maybe it's your fashion? Fitness? Hygiene? Voice pitch? Maybe your place was not tidy enough? If you went as far as touching her butt and kissing her for so many minutes, you should've... jingled all the way.

Such_Butterscotch_68 · 2020-12-18T10:24:24+00:00

It could be that she has heard something which just doesn't gel with her wants and needs in a relationship. I stopped seeing a guy because I found out he lived his life on credit card debt and it goes against my values to have debt. The rest of the date went really well but I couldn't get over it. It is most likely not you.

And it is hard to reject someone particularly if it has been going really well up till then.

MaskedDG · 2020-12-18T11:45:49+00:00

You need to have a proper look at yourself rather than coming to people who don't know you for advice here. That's very strange behaviour from her. You've done something wrong and your post seems to suggest that it's basically a recurring issue.

No_Air_5047 · 2020-12-18T12:29:48+00:00

Ghosting you is one thing but completely blocking on all platforms usually means she found something really wrong with you.... and if some women did the same thing in past then seriously you might wanna re-evaluate yourself.

Do you sound like a psycho/weirdo? Do you have a weird/psycho look about you? Do you smell like shit? There are a bunch of stuff that outright drives women far away

elacoollegume · 2020-12-18T06:59:09+00:00

I noticed you said this isn’t the first one? What did it look like the last time this happened? During the dates what did the convos look like? Physical boundaries?

Title	Blocked immediately after first date
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Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	December 18, 2020 6:49 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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