Do I break eye contact?

Big_Impression2350 · 2021-02-24T02:12:29+00:00

Break after sometime, otherwise you'll come off as a creep, as you've mentioned in the post.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-02-24T04:11:36+00:00

The rules of the jungle are that the one who breaks eye contact first is the submissive one so stare as long as possible, open your eyes as wide as you can, and start growling and snarling. That should make her look away first.

Don't ever lose.

revente · 2021-02-24T03:24:29+00:00

Wait for her to break it first. People think that there is so much you can ‚read’ from eye contact. I don’t.

But there is one thing, and a very important. Eye contact is a tension, and you need to prove that as a dude you are better at witholding it than a girl. Just relax and keep looking at her, until she breaks it.

sheuvvie · 2021-02-24T13:39:04+00:00

as a woman, you really need to break off the eye contact one in a while. i find it creepy, and i wouldn't be surprised if some women feel the same way

JonnyChexx · 2021-02-25T00:12:22+00:00

I never realized how big of a issue eye contact is for guys. It shouldn't be break or don't break, instead your action should be dictated by how your able to increase your level of communication her. The whole point is to approach so breaking eye contact could ruin it but also if you may be in loud place or too far apart to approach.

At this point your probably like "wtf?" but you still have just as much opportunity without saying a word if you utilize your subcommications. Facial Expressions can say alot. A simple raised eye can make her feel self conscious or a surprised look can bring life to a compliment. When I make eye contact with a mutual attraction I immediately do the "soft flirty grin". What I'm trying to say to her is "Are u flirting with me bc I hope so" but I keep it soft to also communicate "this is not a big thing me but I'm def interested in you" aka confidence. Think of it as if you saw Will Smith or Jason Momoa making eye contact. Always go for that loving, confident expression that inspires a flirtatious warmth to make her feel like that hour she spent getting ready was well worth it. At this moment you've said (or proved) 98% of everything you needed to attract her so if she reciprocates in any way you better approach.

So it's neeedless to say every situation is different but use simple expressions to warm up the approach but be sure as hell that ur not staring at her by blinking like normal person and making sure this last NO longer than 10 seconds followed your approach.

No-Emotion-7053 · 2021-02-24T15:23:05+00:00

Probably wasn’t 10-15 that’s quite long lol

Lazlo25 · 2021-02-28T18:31:52+00:00

I feel like you really only need to have eye contact long enough for you to give her a smile and maybe a nod. But don’t look away awkwardly, just look back in whatever direction you were before, continuing whatever your doing. However, another option is to approach the girl (especially if she returns your smile).

Title	Do I break eye contact?
Author	Big_Impression2350
Upvotes	17
Comments	18
Date	February 24, 2021 1:22 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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