Some people say that you attract more girls when you're not actively trying to get them, has anyone else never experienced this?

ScreamingButtholes · 2021-03-02T03:41:43+00:00

Met my now ex-girlfriend literally the weekend after I said fuck dating and deleted all my apps and just wanted to have fun on a guys night out. So I legitimately believe there’s some truth to the mindset thing.

2021-03-02T04:05:36+00:00

Anytime I’m in the zone whether that’s focused on work or something or just being in my own world, that is when I have noticed women come after me. I’ll be minding my own business and suddenly a female coworker is intentionally brushing against me. Or I’ll make a mistake and try to fix it frantically and a girl will say “you’re so cute” or I once got a random compliment on my looks out of the blue.

Don’t chase it. Let it chase you. By NO MEANS is anything guaranteed but I can attest to the effectiveness of this mindset. Every time a girl flirted with me, it was out of nowhere

Controlforever · 2021-03-02T04:45:57+00:00

Okay how do I explain this correctly.

First - Chasing one woman to the exclusion of all others will never work out, she will taste that desperation on the air and want nothing to do with you.

Second - While not actively looking for women can work that can't mean sitting in your house playing COD and drinking mountain dew because I can tell you it's unlikely a girl will knock on your basement door asking for a date. You have to still put yourself out there in the world go out go to social events (as much as you can in this effed world we're currently experiencing).

Third - I always found good success going out to have fun and by that I mean I'm going out to meet people, not girls, just people, you never know if the next person you talk to will be your wife, your best wingman who gets you introduced to your next GF, or what putting yourself out there and making connections by looking for entertainment and fun is a great way to live life.

Slow-Association6105 · 2021-03-02T04:53:44+00:00

Yep. I have one girl that snaps me a picture of herself every morning and I leave it on read every time. It’s always the girls you don’t like that like you.

Title	Some people say that you attract more girls when you're not actively trying to get them, has anyone else never experienced this?
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Date	March 2, 2021 1:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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