Hope you all are doing well. I wanted to share a powerful hack I've been testing out in situations where seduction is classically difficult and verbal game isn't as simple (like with grocery store clerks, waitresses, etc.), which I used to get a few girls to hint to me that they wanted me to ask for their number, or just straight up ask me for my number. Those sets eventually fizzled out because of poor text game and being too busy to ask them out for dates in the near future, but I did build a shit ton of attraction, so take this data as you will.

Also, in case anyone was wondering, my eyes are small and definitely not pretty lmao. Got made fun of for them a lot when I was a kid.

Make strong, smiling eye contact that lingers. Picture it in your head, you stumble across your old friend from high school at a bar, you haven't spoken to him in a while and you are absolutely delighted to see him again. Think of the delight that shows up in your non-verbal expressions, primarily in your eye contact (especially because masks are mandated so limited non-verbals otherwise), when you see him. You don't break eye contact because your brain is loving the dopamine you get from looking at him. That's how you want it to be with women. This tool, if done right and non-creepily, elicits many things at once:

(1) Expresses a ton of confidence- If you bring easy, fun energy to other people, the world will return that energy. It starts off the interaction so well. When you first approach a girl, with non-verbal cues, she's going to be thinking "Oh my gosh, he's not going to take this conversation anywhere, he doesn't know what he's doing, my friends would judge the shit out of me if I slept with him." But with confident eye contact, girls will realize that the interaction itself isn't awkward because they trust in your confidence, and they will make that vote of confidence based on eye-contact. While this is expressed both verbally and non-verbally, I've been in situations where what I was saying was absolute dog shit because I was terrified, but my non-verbal expressions were powerful and expressive, and that led to a solid number

(2) Signals authenticity- If you look at a girl the way you look at someone you care about, that, in her mind, immediately eliminates the classic fear women have when approached of "he's probably approaching other girls, I'm not special". Anyone can lie and say grandiose things about themselves and their feelings towards someone, but women read social cues like hawks, and they can spot frauds from a mile away; if you have the right non-verbals, you don't have to talk about how amazing of a person you are (qualifying yourself), they'll make every positive assumption about you to justify sleeping with you. You are judged less by what you say, and more by your non-verbal cues, especially eye contact.

(3) Words are logical, non-verbals are emotional, and more smooth- While this definitely isn't close to being a universal rule and words can be very emotional, in dating, non-verbals express so much more emotion than words alone can in most situations. Emotion can be very attractive if spread out relatively equally with logic. People don't remember what you say to them, but how you make them feel. And strong eye contact does so much of the work for you, because rather than approaching a girl and having to say "hey I think you're cute, let's talk", you can verbally be polite and only very slightly intentful, making mostly casual conversation, but your eye contact can be saying "you are fucking gorgeous, I want to rip your clothes off and fuck you right now". This is an unbelievably powerful combination because you can cover so much ground and escalate like fucking crazy and not have to say a single word about it.

(4) Bypasses slut shaming- Women never want to feel tricked when they sleep with a man who will leave them, which is why they base their decisions on honest signals. Effective eye contact does exactly that. If they want to sleep with you, they can then tell themselves "I'm going to sleep with him because he seems honest", and subconsciously think "I can't shame myself later for being a slut by sleeping with him because he genuinely seems honest about who he is, I'm not being tricked and am not making a dumb decision here" (girls would rather have the "I couldn't have possibly known" factor to avoid being slut shamed, that's why they shit-test, so they can at least tell themselves they didn't make a dumb decision). They won't even think "i like his eye contact" for the most part, they'll subconsciously notice it and factor it into their decision making. But if you rely solely on strong verbal game and don't work on your non-verbals, they'll think "okay, he's saying something that I like, but I feel like he could just be saying that to sleep with me and dump me the next day, and I can't stand getting judged as a slut by my friends again". That's how women think, and understanding this as a broader concept will save you so much time and energy.

In conclusion, start off your sets with very effective eye contact, and your approaches will be significantly easier. It won't carry your sets alone, nothing will, but it will certainly add a powerful element to them. Practice in the mirror before your next set and make sure to remind yourself to implement it during your set.