Hey guys. I want to start cold approaching but it's so god damn hard to get rid of my failure to fail so to help with it I decided I should post this and tell you how my first cold approach is going to be. I will do it tomorrow(it's night already here) and I'll come back with the results. Wish me luck.

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EDIT : I did it and it was a complete failure but I'm so happy with myself for doing it. I was standing on a bench and I saw a cute girl go into a bus stop, so after thinking about it for a bit I went up to her and I told her she was very pretty(I stuttered A LOT) she said thank you. I asked her for her name and (I forgot her name, I'm pretty bad at remembering them though haha) she said her name, I put my hand out for a handshake and she said no thank you. My brain at this point said ok she's not interested but in retrospect it may have been simply just her refusing to do so because of covid so I think I should've asked if it's because of covid or simply continue with the conversation. Then because I tought(which very well could also be the case) that she was not interested, I said oh ok and then left. Now I have a new goal, 3 approaches minimum per day. I see this as an absolute win even though I failed. It feels like a bunch of the anxiety has been lifted off my shoulders and I feel more confident to do it again. Thanks a lot for the support guys!