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[–]elgrantriste 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you asking if letting a girl know you're looking for a relationship is a good way of finding a relationship and letting a girl know you're looking for something casual is a good way of finding a casual relationship?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sort of?
[–]Daunt02 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Finding out the reasons why you want a girlfriend is important because you will be telegraphing your true feelings through your words. Do you want to find a girlfriend because you want a woman to fill in a space in your life that you're not finding within yourself? You're going to have a bad time.
Find out why you want what you want and do some soul searching for a whole. Then let people know what you really want from a place of strength not because you can get something from someone.
[–]Dodechaedron 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
1) Understand women's "signs of attraction" (plenty of body language videos on YouTube); 2) create a rapport with the girl (if she's willing to reciprocate); 3) get intimate (again, if she's willing to reciprocate); 4) decide if you want to continue to date or move on.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Everything is correct but the last point can change depending on her response and your intentions
[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Get intimate (consensually, obviously), then you decide if you want a LTR or whatever. I learned by experience: sex is part of the equation.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What’s LTR?
[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Long term relationship
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but I guess not a lot of women would fuck someone they just met, so....
[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Most wouldn't, a minority would. After a couple of dates it's more likely
Yeah but after a couple of dates you can directly be her boyfriend or something
[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Which is more akin to their views
[–]No_Bother4196 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My friend you have a lot to learn unless your on a club for that kinda people then your ok any where else you are not getting paid like that if you do it was luck
[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't think either of these tactics would work
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, what would work?
[–]kettlebell_workout 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends.
First of all don't say anything what you are looking for, unless she REALLY wants to know.
Secondly, if you SEE that she is potential gf material, and you can say this without sounding like a pussy, then that's fine.
Third, if you SEE that she is only for sex. Then I leave it up to your moral standards to decide what to do.
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