If you want to ever have success with women, stop having "crushes" on girls. The faster you make your move on a girl, the more likely you are to succeed. The longer you wait, the more likely you are to be wasting your precious time.

It doesn't matter how attractive or good your game is, there is a 90%+ chance any given girl will reject you.

The longer you wait to be direct with a woman, the more likely she is to reject you because you have not shown that you can be direct and take charge.

If you've ever called a girl your crush, the likelihood that she will reject you is near 100%.

So be direct and ask her out as soon as logistically possible. Because there is a 90%+ chance she will reject you anyways, the sooner you do this the sooner you can move on.

If you ask her out ASAP, not only can you quickly move on if she rejects you, but your chances of being not being rejected actually go up the quicker you make your move.

Women want a man who knows what he wants (her), goes after it, and goes after it with haste. When you wait, trying to play friends, or just stay in her orbit until you get enough courage to ask her out, the more you show that you cannot go after what you want and if you do, you aren't doing it with haste.

If you are hungry, you make food/go to a restaurant, or else you starve.

If you want a woman, and you wait around for weeks or months, do you really want her or are you letting yourself starve cause you're too afraid to make a move? The longer you wait, the more you show her that you don't want her and she will be more likely to reject you because you've shown that it either takes you months to figure out what you want or that you did know what you wanted but weren't man enough to go after what you wanted ASAP. The longer you wait, the more you are starving yourself of action; just like when you starve yourself of food, when you starve yourself of direct action, you become weak. When you finally make a move, you are showing her that you are weak. Women do not want a weak man. Women want a strong man who acts like the leader who is worthy her following him.

Stop crushing on girls. Make a move, get rejected, move on, make a move, and start crushing that p**** instead of crushing on a girl.