Hi all, this is my second post on this sub. I met the girl in some outdoor activity with her date in last autumn, we talked got to know each other. She was very outgoing and chatted with all the guys, mentioning she do not have a boyfriend now, I got her number as she lives very close to my place. Later on, we chatted, and I told her I am with a girl for over 3 years and stuffs and we can have 2nd girl, later we turned to be good friends as I liked her extroverted personality so much as it matches with me.

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By the next month we went to the similar activity then another guy who live close to me became very good friend of mine, Later we three went for a dinner, In couple of days the guy asked her out alone and eventually became her boyfriend. At that time they did not tell me IDK. Later one day I brought them for a long walk beside river with drinks and stuffs. That night I suddenly told her that I really like her personally and herself. That same time she had the courage to tell me as she and my friend is dating for couple days, I felt weird, gave them space and got busy with my own stuffs.

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While I was away, they both called me to have dinner and stuffs, as I was always energetic, eating and exploring different parts of the city while being talkative. We seldom met in later months.

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Around one month ago I met the girl alone in a outdoor activity, we talked and had fun, this time i felt more interested to her. At this point she mentioned i am a fun guy to be with, If i did not have girlfriend she wanted to be with me.

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Last couple days we were having facetime, yesterday afternoon i asked her if she have time for dinner and movie, she said she would love to go out with me.

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We went to dinner, I planned the date in advance, we were holding hands on the dinner table, later we walked holding hands then went to watch movies. In the cinema we held hands and naturally we kissed.

After the kiss she was telling me we were doing it wrong by cheating 2 of our partner and stuffs but later on she insisted going to a motel.

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No, we did not go to motel as later she was feeling regret going too far with me already, asked me to forget everything happened and still be friends!

We finished the movie went to a park with lake then we kissed for a long time, then again, she was telling me that I am acting childish, we should not break others heart. I felt she is very loyal to her boyfriend while we are doing this in secret.

What would you consider the best move for me.

Should I disappear or go with the flow.

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Thanks for reading the long text!

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