When I was like 23 and out of college, I started working at a place and became friends with this woman around my age. She was married with a kid. I was her beta male orbiter. Like a year later she had another kid with the same husband.

Fast forward to about 5 years ago around the age of around 32, she cheated on her husband with a guy that was in his 60s at her workplace. She fooled around with him so much and even brought him into her husband's house under the guise that he would do some remodeling in their kitchen. Then she decided she had had enough of him and dumped him. The old guy wasn't having it, he started stalking her. In order to make nice with him she tried being "friends" with him at which point he drugged her, raped her, and filmed the 10+ hour long rape. Finally, she told her husband everything. He wasn't too happy and wasn't able to forgive her and they divorced.

Fast forward five years to today, the divorce is finally through, and the ex husband drained all of the bank accounts, and she's left with nothing. She had a pretty good job but all of the stress and shit ruined her health, she came down with some pretty debilitating diseases and cannot work anymore. She has two kids and running out of her savings.

She called me up a few days ago and dumped all of this on me, she did not ask me for money though. She did make it seem pretty bleak, like her and her kids are gonna be on the streets soon.

As for me, I am not the same man at 37 that I was at 23. I am making good money, almost six figures. I am not married, but I do have a 20 yr old GF that I got when she was 18 and a virgin. She's a good girl, tradwife material.

I'm not gonna play captain save-a-ho with this old woman that I used to orbit. I did reluctantly agree to have a "hang out" with her and her kids, a lunch or something similarly stupid. She had been texting me and dropping hints for about two years now, but I always ignored her because I have a good, young woman that I'm dating now.

Thoughts?

EDIT: Forgot to mention that around that 5 year ago mark, after she told me she was divorcing, I did try to go for her like a smooth brained moron. I asked her if we could be romantic and she said to "give it time." Well I guess now is the time she chose LMAO.

Also had shamed me previously for dating a younger chick, telling me I shouldn't be dating women whom are old enough to be my daughter. Kind of ironic seeing as she cheated on her husband with a guy that was over 25 years older than her.