How do girls qualify for LTR?

LukeMooney · 2015-07-25T23:36:45+00:00

Low partner count. Feminine. Less than 25. Are my main ones. Others could be; good relations with parents, not a feminist, no tattoos, non smoker, never done drugs, good cook, works out, cleans

Squeezymypenisy · 2015-07-25T19:06:06+00:00

Does she have any red flags? That's your first clue. And most girls aren't funny because if their pretty enough any thirsty moron will laugh at any joke no matter how bad or unfunny.

OlBastard · 2015-07-25T19:10:54+00:00

I find humor important as well, it usually goes hand-in-hand with intellectual compatibility.

Other required features are:

Submissive - adheres to the captain/first-mate dynamic
Attractive - skinny/athletic preferably with a nice muscular ass or working towards one
Low partner count(1-3)
No mental issues(depression, bpd, shit that requires meds)
Physically active - capable or aspiring to become sufficiently strong, can keep up on 20+ mile hikes
Straightforward - no nagging or any of that passive-aggressive female bullshit. If she has a problem she has to be able to bring it to me and not waste either of our times.
Can cook, massage, not an idiot financially
Not extremely high income prospects, but not low either
Pleasant personality - feminine, calming, responsive

Blerks · 2015-07-26T00:36:04+00:00

For me, it ultimately comes down to respect. If she looked like a potato, would you still respect her? Does she respect you?

Mutual love gets two people together, mutual respect keeps them together.

vengefully_yours · 2015-07-26T14:52:27+00:00

With me? They don't. What they do is stick around, be honest and not hide shit from me, come over when I tell them to, and then I fuck them.

I've done the LTR thing, 20 years of my life spent on 4 girls, it's not worth what it costs you.

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-07-25T20:04:21+00:00

A slut is a woman who cashes in on her uterus. Physical looks are her game. If her looks aren't good enough then she compensates by making it easier to fuck her, which is still a purely physical game. She usually fails to get commitment so she finds a beta and sets herself apart purely by being the only girl to talk to him, which is of course another kind of physical game.

A good girl will have less sex because her game isn't fully physical. She might try to keep you around by cooking, knitting you something, or whatever. Nonsexual favors and a good personality are her game because she wants that commitment. A girl is a good LTR insofar as her game is more like the good girl and less like the slut. Although it's possible for her to take it too far and just be a prude. A girl with a good balance will usually have a history of relationships lasting at least a year and be averse to sex outside of her relationships.

DOCTORxTEETH · 2015-07-25T19:41:35+00:00

physically attractive, which to me means long hair, thick thighs and ass, pretty face
attractive personality, which means feminine but still a little bit boyish. I always caught oneitis for tomboys
good relationship with parents, especially father
good group of friends
confidence. I knew a girl that would always put herself down. It was the most unattractive shit ever.
I'd prefer no tattoos, but if she has some, they should be feminine or cultural, in feminine areas, small, and easy to cover
no mental issues going on
uses logic
Can cook
can clean
doesn't mind cooking and cleaning for her man
exercise
good with money
a job. My older brother is currently living with his pregnant, jobless girlfriend's parents house. Not gonna be me
never had an abortion
never experimented with hard drugs. Weed and alcohol are fine.
low to no partner count
not a reformed hoe
submissive to me.

Now that I look at it, I have a long, specific ass list.

Dmhgrosso2 · 2015-07-26T01:04:18+00:00

What's up some of these answers... alot of you guys actually want virgins? Like Obv. you wouldn't want a slut but you don't want some inexperienced girl who's gonna make a big deal about it.. I don't see the appeal? I'd say depending on your age 3 guys would be an ok number. If you're younger maybe 2. If your older 4.

RedoranBoneMould · 2015-07-25T20:04:36+00:00

Christian

Virgin

Pretty

High Work Ethic

Has an overall fun attitude, but can still have intelligent conversations as well.

roteBart2015 · 2015-07-25T20:22:18+00:00

Young, not expierienced with sex, can cook and does it full of happinnes for me, not jelous, rescpectful, lower wage.

RemyPrice · 2015-07-25T19:09:50+00:00

No tattoos.
Never been in rehab.
Not active on social media.
Low or no debt.
Has a real job.
Has several good friends (male and female).
Always camera ready, meaning looks good no matter what.
Lifts.

fancypants_ · 2015-07-25T20:33:37+00:00

What's up with no one liking tattoos/piercings and doing drugs?

commentatorX · 2015-07-26T02:37:08+00:00

There's no logical reason for a LTR!

Beginning stages of a relationship: Fun, exciting, everything is new. You both work to please one another.

Later stages: Excitement fades. She's lazy, you're lazy. You're expected to carry all the bits and pieces of her: emotionally, family, friends, etc.

There's just no reason. If you're a guy with options, there's no logical reason to be in an LTR.

Even having kids, it's about the same price and a lot less mental stress to adopt - or have a surrogate mother and pay for an aupair and daycare.

We know from what we talk about here that what a man wants from 'love' and what a woman wants are different, and you're never really going to get what a mainstream thinking guy would define as 'love'.

There are 0 reasons or benefits to any guy with options to have a LTR.

Title	How do girls qualify for LTR?
Author	LouieBulk
Upvotes	4
Comments	32
Date	July 25, 2015 6:00 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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