Virgin at 19

cray-cray-cray · 2015-07-28T06:19:10+00:00

I keep reading/hearing it's not like porn.

It's a lot like porn, really.

i3unneh · 2015-07-28T05:04:42+00:00

Here is a personal tip, start watching amateur porn. You know, the type that couples make together of them just having sex. That is more useful than any talk you could get from a parent.

awayofthought · 2015-07-28T01:00:26+00:00

I was scared honestly since I didn't know what to do.

You're the man. You have to be the one that initiates and goes after sex.

You seem like the type that worries about details a lot, so I would recommend reading the Sex God Method.

trp-throw · 2015-07-28T03:32:08+00:00

Penis, meet vagina

stickfiguresk · 2015-07-28T01:21:28+00:00

I keep reading/hearing it's not like porn. Is that true?

No, it's not that far off. Some women moan like whores, some do anal, though, lots of them will try to starfish it. When in doubt, ask her to bend over and fuck her from behind. You can't fuck up doggie position, and it's quite nice.

You're an animal. You don't need to overthink it. Your body knows how to have sex and everything will come naturally(pun not intended). Just have a condom. And pay attention to how excited the two of you are: if you're not excited, than she's either a pig or the situation sucks.

From awayofthought,

You're the man. You have to be the one that initiates and goes after sex.

That's absolutely correct, but much less daunting than it seems. Bitches are submissive, men are dominant.

_Tactleneck_ · 2015-07-28T11:21:33+00:00

I lost my virginity at 19, the night Obama got elected, to my friends hot mom, you'll be fine. Looking back there were maybe 4 or 5 different times a girl was clearly wanting to fuck after an intense make out session or something and I just either missed the cues or thought it'd be fun to have crazy will power, such regret! Ha.

Next time you're making out, start being a little rough after a few minutes, then tell her to jerk you off while you put her hand on your dick over your pants. I used to think girls would be disgusted by this forward a behavior, stop thinking that and fucking tell her what to do. Once she's jerking you off while you make out tell her it feels good and to wrap her mouth around it. You can improvise, but not all girls like you to grab their head and slam them down on your dick! The whole time try to be rubbing her pussy over her pants, then start unbuttoning them. She'll know what's up and if she's gone this far she's likely dtf. Say your intentions with actions and less with words. Wear a condom. Good luck!

Also, don't feel bad if you're taking a while to cum and need to jerk yourself off to finish. That's something you change by changing how you masturbate, but that's a topic for another day.

Moldy_Gecko · 2015-07-28T01:28:02+00:00

If it's like porn or not, it's up to you. I will tell you that I lost mine intentionally by dating a slut that I knew would put out. Look for signs. My big sign was when she snuck out of her room one night in a skirt and tight top. I forget how, but I could tell she had no panties on. That was a 100% sign she was dtf. I just had to make a few moves (and when she's like that, you can jump straight to the crotch). She then took care of everything from there. Your first time might be great to find a girl willing to take the lead. I know another guy who was a virgin and we all went out (big group function). He was a nice, but cool kid. One of my coworkers (A fellow server) was willing to help him out with it one night after drinking. If you're in college, you'll have plenty of opportunities. If you aren't in college and don't have a good job yet, try being a waiter for a little bit. From personal experience waitresses will put out with their male coworkers all the time. As well, it gives you the opportunity to get rid of awkward situations as you are always interacting with women.

In the beginning, you won't know how to be dominant. And if she's your age, she might not really know how to act either. Once you do it once or twice, entering will be a lot easier. The fail of my first few times was switching positions and not finding the hole, getting nervous, and eventually soft. Escalation. Somewhere is a post about proper escalation/kino. If you can make out with a girl, you can go further. Makeout, kiss to her neck, unhook the bra (one handed if you can). If she stops you there, go back to the neck. And rinse/repeat until you get further. Eventually, you'll get to the point where you can keep the bra on and go straight for the honeypot. Good luck and remember, it's not as big of a deal for most of these girls as it is in your head. Especially at 19/20.

shock-combo · 2015-07-28T07:45:13+00:00

i was also a virgin at 19... didn't have the benefit of Red pill... i fucked 50+ by 27... its not like porn... women are all the same... so if you find one with an amazing pussy and face that isnt a total cunt, game that one for a ltr if thats what you want. there's a few i fondly remember. thats all i got, be glad you have the red pill brother.

how can you escalate? I dont know, my first approached me. After that it was just about putting out the signal that i was down to fuck them and finding girls who were into me.

Beautiful_Idealism · 2015-07-28T11:42:05+00:00

Porn is fake but looks real. Its not actually two people having sex but its usually pretty close.

Sometimes the positions they use are terrible in real life. Sometimes they use fake semen. Sometimes they do large anal with no prep... Things like that.

spooky-clinic · 2015-07-28T08:07:41+00:00

You will probably be very disappointed. There is no pussy as tight as your hand and you will be wondering why the hell everybody makes such a fuss about it.

thr0wow · 2015-07-28T14:57:21+00:00

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Title	Virgin at 19
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Date	July 28, 2015 12:28 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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