Important talk - Big talk about Approaching

epimpstyle · 2024-05-20T12:58:22+00:00

Yes, you are right, but waiting for the other person to make the first move is not a wise idea, it is like going into a store and expecting the vendor to read your mind and give you what you need without asking if they have a certain product or not. It's ridiculous, isn't it?

If the other person doesn't give you a sign that they want you to talk to them, you are the one who is going to break the ice, you are a man and the man makes the first move, not the other way around. If the other person doesn't want to talk to you, it's THEIR problem, it's not your fault, you haven't done anything wrong. Imagine you walk into a room and you greet the people in the room because it's nice to do that, if other people don't greet you back, it's a problem with them, not with you.

It is the man's duty to break the ice, and if they are rejected it is not a tragedy, all the risky things are done by the man, not the woman. If a rat appears on the street, you will be the one to scare the rat, you do not expect your girlfriend to do that, so you take the risks. If a thief has stolen your girlfriend's purse, you will be the one running after the thief, not your girlfriend...and so on...so it is your "duty" to start the conversation, not the woman.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-05-20T13:46:14+00:00

What are you trying to accomplish?

DaygameCode · 2024-05-20T13:51:54+00:00

The reaal question do you want to be in control of your life? Or do you want life to happen at you? I prefer to take control and be responsible of my own life, not shifting blame on to cirumstances or external factors.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-05-20T13:24:19+00:00

Correct . All that is true .

I’m for approaching . Though that is mostly because (and I found a way to make it happen constantly ish) getting a girl to approach you is a bitch and a half( to the point if your lock eyes once it ain’t happening 80% of the time ) and you still need to do most of the work if you want something to happen (they tend to suck at gaming men )

Also most men that approach are nerds . They ain’t getting girls to approach them .

Why not . If you are good looking enough it would be a wast of time .

berzerker5000 · 2024-05-20T13:43:10+00:00

Approach but don’t chase

Title	Important talk - Big talk about Approaching
Author	Spiritual-Smoke-9498
Upvotes	7
Comments	27
Date	May 20, 2024 12:44 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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