How to be aggressive and dominate without being labeled bitchy or in my feelings

abdada · 2015-08-05T15:32:16+00:00

You know the answer already...

Options/abundance.

If someone laughs at your dominance or disrespects it, you just fade them.

Learn the 12 levels of dread game and apply them to all relationships, not just sexual ones.

I dread game disrespecting customers. I dread game disrespecting family. I dread game lower status peers and colleagues.

If someone tries to dominate me (laughing at someone is a dominant behavior), I next them.

FrameWalker · 2015-08-05T15:32:35+00:00

Dominate yourself and don't let others control you, that's it. You can't control others so don't try. Not being controlled is enough to be dominant 90% of the time

MeatCurtainRod · 2015-08-05T15:36:25+00:00

There are a SHIT-TON of articles that you need to read up on. Everything from how you stand/sit/walk and carry yourself, to correcting your posture, to how you control your voice and inflections, to facial control and proper eye contact. How you sit or stand is literally everything in the first 5 seconds of your first impression. How you end your last word in a sentence with an up pitch versus a level or down pitch is the difference as coming off as a whiny complainer versus someone stating a fact. And this is just muscle control. You also need to learn how to communicate properly, specifically responding VS reacting. You also need to figure out when to talk and when to shut the hell up, or when to pick your arguments, to properly learning how to make an argument without falling into the common interwebs troll behavior. You need to understand the difference between "being right" versus "being happy". You also need to grasp the overall picture of your situation and calm the hell down. You also need to separate your feelings from your responses, which means building up that filter between your brain and your mouth. Don't let people's opinions anger you or frighten you. Don't assume people are thinking something, because you can't read minds. Don't care what others think of you.

You just asked "how do I become redpill". Well, to start, read the sidebar. That is really the only correct answer. A whiny little runt is still an annoying little bitch even when they manage to act tough without actually being tough.

feminazis_stalk_me · 2015-08-05T15:46:22+00:00

Think about John Wayne. He wasn't the biggest guy, but he had a presence to him. He didn't say much either, so what little he did say, others were eager to hear. If your voice isn't that deep, don't shout. If you talk too much, your words will carry less weight. If you say less, people will listen when you do decide to speak.

speed3_freak · 2015-08-05T17:28:24+00:00

One thing to keep in mind; never underestimate the power of remaining silent. If you think you're coming across as being bitchy, then it's your body language that's probably talking the loudest. Also, you can still be a fun, nice guy while still dominating the room.

Title	How to be aggressive and dominate without being labeled bitchy or in my feelings
Author	Greatness_Incarnate
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	August 5, 2015 3:24 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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