(Note to mods: reposting this because my original post took nearly 2 days to get approved, and as a result barely got any attention.)

In female spaces, it's very common for women to complain about receiving unwanted male attention. When men complain about receiving no female attention, these women claim that having no attention is better than having to deal with stalking, harassment, etc like they do.

So hypothetically, let's say you have a very young daughter who you know is heterosexual (assume you know this for certain, for the sake of the hypothetical), and a magical genie offers 2 options for you:

  1. Your daughter goes through life like a normal woman, who'll receive both wanted and unwanted attention from men.
  2. Your daughter will never receive any male romantic/sexual attention, both wanted and unwanted. No male will ever hit on her, catcall her, touch her, stalk/harass her, etc; as long as she ignores men, men will ignore her. However, every single male will find her utterly repulsive sexually/romantically; she'll never be able to go on a date (let alone find a boyfriend or get married), and if she ever expresses interest in a male (even playfully flirting or timidly asking him out), he'll not only find it annoying but will be grossed out and think she's a disgusting creep. Her only chance at experiencing love/romance is to hire a male hooker. She'll also never get the benefits of male attention such as free drinks/meals, simping, extra help, etc.

Which option would you choose for your daughter? Or if you don't feel comfortable making this choice, which situation do you think would result in her living a better life? You must choose an option and may not dismiss this as a "silly hypothetical" (because it's not silly).