This is will be a long one I think. So I’m just home from a night out at a club in the local city so I’ll try recap my night to the best I can. We hit the city after going to the local club so we went to a club.

This club specifically is 21+, and none of us are that age and we all got let in, the night went on well, we got drinks and had fun. The one thing I couldn’t do though was approach a girl. I genuinely feel horrible after such a fun night as well, the fact I couldn’t hookup with a girl made my confidence plummet and I’ve realised that I’ve never properly chatted up a girl, every girl I’ve been with must have been luck or something. The best thing I got tonight was a dance with a girl who had a boyfriend, I approached her as she was texting someone clearly annoyed and said “The boyfriend being annoying?” to which she responded “Yes” and then I danced with her for a minute or two. I don’t know what I can do to improve my chances, I just am so afraid to properly approach a girl at a club, let alone a cold approach. If anyone has advice I would appreciate it a lot.