Beginner tips for day gaming

norwegiandoggo · 2024-06-10T19:37:12+00:00

Don't just pick any random place to daygame. Try to go places women go specifically to be social during the day. That could be some kind of outdoor market of festival. A popular beach or park, a cool shopping street or shopping mall.

I saw a guy a while back running after women on the train station - trying to catch them while they were on their way home from work. This made him look like a total tool with no social skills. This is not the place to be hitting on women my man.

punktfan · 2024-06-11T00:06:45+00:00

I almost exclusively day game. I just pick a comfortable social spot to hang out (I like beaches and coffee shops) and when I see someone I'm interested in talking to I just say hi and then I gauge by their response if they are interested in talking to me or not. If they're interested in talking to me, I strike up a conversation and see where it leads. I try to mention future activities or interests that we might have in common so that we have an excuse to meet up later and then I get their Instagram or phone number before the conversation ends. I always go with the flow, keep talking to people as long as I still feel interested and they're still responding enthusiastically, and never keep talking to someone if they don't feel interested. I also never have much of a goal in mind other than seeing what the person is open to. I'm not trying to go for a kiss or even to sleep with them right away. Just chat, gauge interest, and if they're interested, ask for their contact. I usually get 2-3 numbers of interested, attractive women per day this way, which is more than enough for me to follow up on.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-10T20:40:44+00:00

Here are my tips:

Random approaching is okay ONLY if you do it with a specific goal in mind. For example if you be never spoken to stranger woman and have trouble even holding eye contact, begin by making eye contact as you walk around. Once you do it 10-15 times and feel comfortable, start making eye contact and smiling and saying hello in passing.
Now, this may sound a little backward but bear with me. It’s part of your exposure therapy. Once you’ve done the smile and hello practice, I want you to go out and practice getting rejected by 15 women. No, don’t say anything stupid or offensive. Simply walk up to a woman and say matter of factly “Hello, I’m Bob, what’s your name? I hope this is not too direct, but I thought you were cute and I’d love to take you out for a drink some time. If you want to give me your phone number, I will call you tomorrow to plan something”. Then hand her your phone number and let her type in her number if she’s receptive. If not, say “okay, nice meeting you bye!!!”.

Remember, the point there is to get rejected. I don’t want you to think about success and getting a number. You WANT to get rejected. That’s the objective.

Get 15 rejections and you will soon find out that you can walk up to any woman and tell her anything and you won’t be nervous because you don’t have expectations of success.

Once you have done those basic steps, I want you to stop cold approaching. Yes, stop it!

I want you to find out a few places on your city which are frequented by attractive women and make them part of your daily routine. It could be a cafe where you sit down after work and answer some emails. It could be a bar where you can become a regular. A park, where you can sit down and read a book or take a walk. Make them part of your daily routine and get out of your rut of never venturing y anywhere else but work and home.

As you explore these new places, go there with a purpose. Not to pick up girls but to try a new cafe and do some work. Or go to a bar with friends you’ve never been to just to enjoy yourself. As you do this be aware of your surroundings and notice opportunities where women may be open to being approached. Maybe you smiled and they smiled back. Then it’s okay to approach.

But if she’s wearing headphones, staring at her laptop, is surrounded by a ring of fire and outside of the ring there are men with machine guns, then don’t approach and bother her. It’s okay.

Strike up conversations with those girls who seem receptive. You can be as simple as “hi I’m Bob, what’s your name? I’d love to get know you a little better”.

DaygameCode · 2024-06-10T22:33:08+00:00

Dont go for numbers or contact details of any kind. Go with the mentality of having an instant date instead instead. A girl giving you her number means nothing. She is not committing to anything and doesn’t mean she likes you or wants to see you again. So forget about this noob idea of “i’m going to get her number”, and instead focus on evaluating what type of girl she is, whether there is chemistry, whether you can easily have a conversation with her for 10 mins at the very least, whether she plays with you and acts flirty submissive and feminine. That’s more important than immediately going for a number in less than a minute.

Electrical_Formal755 · 2024-06-11T16:44:46+00:00

it took me a A lot of approaches to get my first girlfriend from daygame i estimate -it took me 600 approaches to get my girlfriend and "date out of my league"

Wrote some free guides of stuff that helped me dating in London:

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/01/21/13-crucial-errors-in-daygame-and-dating-and-how-to-avoid-them/

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/09/22/10-ways-for-men-to-improve-smv-for-better-day-game-interactions/

Finding good wingman really helped me too - i wrote a guide on my experience of that here :

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2020/10/17/the-importance-of-good-wingman-to-those-starting-out-on-their-seduction-journey/

fixing your social media to decrease flakes- i had a lot of flakes at the beginning due to poor social media profile - wrote some tips here

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2020/10/18/the-complete-instagram-and-social-media-guide-for-dating-and-relationships/

For Motivation:

mindful-masculinity.org/2024/05/07/why-i-believe-daygame-will-always-be-the-best-form-of-dating-for-the-majority-of-men-to-meet-new-women/

For Date Planning and how to execute on the first date :

mindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/11/9-step-first-date-same-day-lay-guide-planning-texting-and-escalating/

mindful-masculinity.org/2023/11/06/do-men-really-have-more-time-than-women-in-the-sexual-market-place/

any questions just ask

Title	Beginner tips for day gaming
Author	Red-ManIII
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	June 10, 2024 7:14 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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