Started off mainly sexual, Last 1-2 weeks we admitted our feelings to eachother, She kinda goes hot & cold depending on the day, well more like super hot to lukewarm. We text everyday usually only a couple texts, sometimes we get into topics and it’s more Anyway I feel like I should moderately pull back for a week right now to amplify her interest,in July we have lots of plans. I don’t want her to get bored or miss having her weekends.

Should I just tell her I’m busy this weekend and can’t hang but still text same frequency? What’s a moderate pullback instead of a hard pullback, or scrap the idea?

TLDR: What are moderate pull back actions?