I’m in a LDR since this year with a very loving and attentive man. We haven't met yet, but he has shown me and supported me with his good intentions.

My problem here is: video calls and when we will meet.

He is very very busy and we had gone from having video calls every week to none in over 3 weeks. I told him rightly my concern about it and also that I like the fact that he takes the initiative on this. He was very receptive and said he will take care of it. It has been several days and he has not yet proposed a call, but he has reminded me about it every night. The issue is the little free time he has, I know he prefers to take it off-screen and go outside. I’d like to propose that we make shorter calls or just phone calls, but once I did and he prefers our planned video calls of more than 2 hours although it seems to be difficult for him to schedule. I still want him to take care of it, but I must confess that it stresses me out a bit if nothing happens.

Second situation: when we will meet. In fact he had already proposed to meet a couple of week’s ago, but he told me only 3 days in advance (we live on different continents), and I lovingly declined and told him that I preferred our meetings to be at least a week in advance. He was also receptive about it. He told me that he is looking for his own space/buy a house so that I can go there more comfortably, but I must confess that it also stresses me out to feel in "limbo" not knowing when that date will be when we will finally meet. The deadline he gave me is no later than this year.

Deep down I know that I should just relax and let him make the decisions, but I also have my needs in a relationship.