Met a woman (30~35), barely knew her so I wanted to know her more, asked her for coffee without mentioning anything about it being a date.

We met and talked for 2 hours, it was a casual conversation about family, childhood, opinions, hobbies and a little bit of trauma.

Next day in the morning she sent a message saying "It's not that I had a bad time yesterday, but it felt so datey and I don't wanna date anyone right now."

What shocked me is that I didn't even try anything in that "date", not even flirting or relationship talk, and I'm used to girls waiting for the guy to make the first move, so now I'm wondering is this woman testing me in some way ? Or is she just more direct than other girls I've met ?