Hello all, usually do the perusing but I just can’t get this girl out of my head.

I (28) matched with this girl (25) on hinge a few days ago. She lived out of town, an hour from me. We texted a couple times then I got busy and forgot to reply. She texts me again later at night that she’s in town and see if I wanted to grab a drink. She said she was in leggings and told me not to wear anything fancy so I asked her to pick my outfit for me (just to flirt a bit).

We had a great time, I teased her, she was laughing and definitely physically flirting the entire time. We even planned to go mini golfing the next day. There were barely any people at the bar, we went to the back lawn area and I kissed her.

We made out again by our cars before parting ways. She insisted I text her when I got home. The next day she texts me saying she’s not feeling well and may need to rain check… later that day she says she’s been sleeping all day. I reply with “No worries, I’m free Sunday night let me know what works for you!”

Haven’t heard from her since then. In hindsight I realized maybe she wanted to hook up and I just didn’t catch on at the time because I was into her and looking forward to seeing/escalating further the next day. She was so fine and I just cannot get her out of my head. I was gonna text her later next week and say I am passing through town and see if she is free to do a wine night.

Any thoughts or advice? Idk I’ve never really been in this head space before, I can’t concentrate fully and keeping thinking about how I should have been more physical. I’d like to think I’m pretty successful with the ladies and have no problem building rapport/or moving on, but this one stuck