Approaching when no signals are given?

DaygameCode · 2024-09-06T03:23:01+00:00

Yes, i never get signals from women so i just approach them anyways respectfully. You can do anything without signals as long as you are respectful and don’t make them confused about why you are talking to them.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-09-06T03:30:00+00:00

Approaching when no signals are given?

No one is stoping you.

, I don’t really approach women unless its a night out.

So like an adult.

Would you guys approach regardless in this scenario?

Sure.

Just find a way to get in front of her.

Probably find the right level of dominants you need to display. (Technically it is a lack of smoothness - yes more dominant girls hate pussy bitch style approaches - you can tell IF you found one by her asking for money or being completely unimpressed by you)

What are the best ways to approach in this situation?

What I said before + :

Opening :

Probably since there is actual 0 thinking time. Have an opener you use constantly.

And don’t hold your breath - walking sets are a 0 sum game. So no matter how long the set is try and get a number.

IF YOU can stop her -increases chances significantly (depending on skill from 20 to 50%) so find a way to stop her and keep her there (tension usually helps)

Remember “2 sec, 2 sec” - if she doesn’t look like she is stoping.

The other thing that increases open rates is talking to her while she is already stoped

Keep in mind it is rare.

Vibing :

IF she is stoped - time in set doesn’t really matters.(as much as I tell beginners otherwise)

As in 5 /10 min sets are about optimal when it comes to time vs results.

But what matters is HOW much emotions/ tensions and how far you have gotten her?

A quick reminder :

Attention -> logic engagement-> emotional. engagement -> Us engagement -> sexual engagement

You want at least “US engagement“ otherwise you did nothing and are relying on luck.

So the open should get her attention.

Lets go over the other stuff.

Logical engagement:

Your first question AFTER the open should be “What are you doing right now?”

So you know : how much time you have, how much to spam tension/emotions at the girl.

Like if you have 20 min go ahead waist time talking about her dog you have 10 min to fill somehow.

If you have 30 sec you better do nothing but Either tension and/or emotion spamming.

And rather or not you CAN pull - there is a chance a small one but a chance.

Emotional engagement :

really any emotion you cause (you might have done it of the open by the smooth calibration)

Otherwise Teasing/breaking rapport/ Jokes of any kind. Whatever as long as it causes some.

Get the number here someplace. If she won’t give it BUT doesn’t try to walk away (you lack smoothness) - keep at it and try and get it in like 1/2 min (call it like 3 exchanges) but make it smaller steps.(generally you could go for the smaller steps of the bat - but I don’t want to make your learning process harder)

Us engagement aka The thing you want.

There are 3 types:

Me vs you (applicable but I won’t go over it)

Me and you

easiest being setting up the date there and then. (This you do regardless)

How we feel about each other:

You could frame it : “I feel a spark” “I feel a connection” etc

There are other ways (Like “I’m faster than you” “my socks are better” (Me vs you) - but I don’t trust you can pull it of so I won’t go over it)

Note on Sexuality: Since you are in daygame - sexual tension is probably the only thing that works (distracted kino in the day time is a huge risk)

Generally don’t go back on the progression (Attention -> logic engagement-> emotional. engagement -> Us engagement -> sexual engagement) unless she forces it and then do it only for a bit.

Closing:

The number :

Do you like ____(activity or drinks/food)?

“Give me your number so we can ____(do activity/ try place that makes awesome food/drinks)”

Smaller steps :

“Do you like ____(activity or drinks/food)? “ …. (2 area codes in place you exist) example “000 or 111 ?” …. Hand her the phone “type in the rest” … (keep talking while she types it in)

“Ok cool - I know ___ (place) we can ____(do activity/ place that makes awesome food/drinks)” -> setting up the date.

Pull (dependant entirely on the off chance she doesn’t have a life )

“Let’s go to my place to get to know each other better“ -> Handle objections that come up.

If you don’t feel you can pull off the objection handling :

“Hey I’m hungry/thirsty I know (place near by) we can grab a (food/drink)”

And that you lead a normal date. (Generally less objections)

There you go enjoy.

Shot_Following_1679 · 2024-09-06T02:41:11+00:00

Yeah I've done this crap. It's unflattering, especially if it's in the morning and everyone needs their coffee lol.

United_Virus7901 · 2024-09-07T15:58:15+00:00

Move your feet towards her and when you get close enough open your mouth and make words

epimpstyle · 2024-09-06T17:39:23+00:00

The OPENERS are created exactly to make them look at you. Once you say: "hi", "hello", "excuse me", "two seconds" theoretically you will catch her attention and she will look at you, so you can say your opener. The opener is not a single sentence like "hi, how's it going?" but actually it is "hi..." and watch if she looks at you, if not, say again "hi", even wave your hand to be sure that she will look at you.... THEN you continue "how's it going?"

This is a simple example to understand that it is not about WHAT you say but HOW you say.

Ancient-Position-696 · 2024-09-06T22:20:36+00:00

This is called a pearl harbor

Title	Approaching when no signals are given?
Author	FreeBigSlime
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Date	September 6, 2024 2:31 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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