Long story short, I have my first mediation in late October. I've been living in the house for the past 3 months since she filed. It's absolute hell on earth and my kids see conflict a lot.

When she filed, there was an initial temp plan she had to submit with it that basically said we'd do everything mutually agreed.

I've created a temp plan that let's me stay at my parents on the days and nights I work (rotating shifts) while she takes care of the kids. When I'm off work, I'll get the kids and we stay at my parents. This will help get the routine established now before the holidays instead of doing it after mediation in the midst of the busy season.

I've given my plan to her lawyers, she's seen it, and every time I ask about it, she claims up or gives me an excuse that kicks the can down the road. She's stalling on this completely.

Can I petition the court to adopt my parenting plan by default?