Need guidance

DaygameCode · 2024-09-07T23:47:45+00:00

If this is your first date and you don’t know the answer to any of those questions, you have to understand that it will not work.

Waiting to get a girl interested to start learning is not good move. You should have been interested in learning before a girl showed some interest.

You cannot learn to pull a girl without any prior training, experience or knowledge, against the clock.

I really don’t know what to do. How do I proceed.

You go on the date, and talk with her and get to know her. What are her motivations life. Her anecdotes, her experiences, how she feels about things you talk about, and also relate to all of that by sharing the same things about yourself. Your experiences, your anecdotes, your goals, your dreams, your feelings about those things…

What are norms to do on a date.

You need to avoid trying to impress her, avoid trying to fit into her standards, avoid trying to prove you are good enough or that you would treat her better, avoid trying to be competent to earn points, avoid trying to prove that you are not like other guys,… That’s most guys mistakes, they try to convince her with logic of giving him a chance, and trying to make merits so that she realises she should be with him and that has the opposite effect, it makes her dislike you or lose interest.

How do I get my first kiss.

You need to express what you find sexy about her, tell her what you are finding special about her based on the conversation you have and create tension by telling her things like “i’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” or “stop being so funny/interesting, or i’m gonna fall in love”…

Based on whether she reacts well or positively to those comments you can go for it or change topics. She is never gonna say “ok go ahead and kiss me”, so you have to just go for it not caring if she rejects you or not.

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-09-08T04:30:00+00:00

Plan everything out but be adaptable if something goes wrong. Be a leader, and let her have fun relax and enjoy. Women like a man who is in control, without being obsessive.

When the emotions are high on a positive note, make physical advances. Touch her when your both laughing after a joke. Try to good her hand when the moment seems right. Greet her with a hug when you first meet. Break the physical touch barrier.

If she doesn't seem comfortable give it a rest and try again later when the emotions are high. Unless she flat out tells you don't touch me she might just be shy herself. If she rejects you but doesn't set a boundary, try again later.

Women want men to lead and be confident. Make moves, roll with whatever happens, but it's far worse to make no moves and be a giant pussy than to make one and get turned down. She will respect the latter more whereas the first one gets ghosted

timjohnbrad11 · 2024-09-08T12:07:45+00:00

Just talk to her - if you feel the convo dying change the topic, no one minds (it’s better than a 15 pointless deep dive). If you think you should kiss her then kiss her, she’s thinking the same.

klapenaw · 2024-09-08T00:20:44+00:00

1st you need to relax. Nothing screams insecure more than being nervous which can turn a girl off. 2nd instead of being overly excited you should be confident that you got this girl on a date. Never let them see you sweat

Title	Need guidance
Author	anaba29
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Comments	8
Date	September 7, 2024 11:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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