How to become attractive as a man?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-09-25T12:38:53+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

darthayrus · 2024-09-25T01:02:05+00:00

Depends on your criteria bro. Attractive for yourself? Attractive for someone else? Your personality or your physique? Important to note that this is going to be something you’re going to be working on long term and consistently.

Attractive for yourself: in terms of appearance
maintain hygiene
workout regularly
maintain a decent healthcare routine
learn about products that can help with fixing or maintaining certain aspects about you (got curly hair - learn about shit that helps you maintain it healthy; got blemishes and pimples on your face - get appropriate products on that).
put the effort to care for yourself

in terms of personality: pursue your interests and hobbies. Spend the time on enjoying those for yourself and by yourself - you will definitely learn a lot about yourself when you go about doing that and you will most definitely meet like-minded people along the way.

Attractive for someone else?
if it’s for someone you’re with learn about what they like about your physical qualities and either work on maintaining that or improving it
if it’s in terms of your personality, everyone’s got their cup of tea - so don’t get too caught up on that and lose your originality.
you share common interests with someone you like? Then make an effort to learn to enjoy it better and learn more about it and share your enthusiasm with them.
forget about being boring or being vanilla non-sense. Insecurities will always be there to pick on everything about you. I’ve always worried about something like that. My girlfriend cherishes me for who I am today. So just go do your thing, whatever it is.

ZookeepergameSalt807 · 2024-09-25T00:53:53+00:00

You’re already interesting bro. Any person you meet can write a biography of things unique to only them. With lessons learned in their own lives and stories filled with challenges overcome and loss experienced. I have started a notes app on my phone when I think of an interesting thing that’s happened to me I just write it it down as if I have to tell a ghost writer one day all the details. By keeping that in mind I remember details I thought I’d forgotten and a I can add to stories as I remember details and edit them and make them more interesting. You have 25 years on the same planet as everyone else and everything you need is already abundantly in front of you.

averageguy694200 · 2024-09-25T03:28:35+00:00

Get in great shape, get some hobbies, have friends, dress better, and make a solid Hinge profile. It’s insane how much more confident i act on dates when I don’t care about the outcome, because I know I can go out with a different girl next week if it doesn’t work out with this one.

PixelSteel · 2024-09-25T05:56:03+00:00

Gym and shower

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-09-25T01:06:46+00:00

Read The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man

Edit: I wrote this book and released it last year

ratfooshi · 2024-09-25T01:21:10+00:00

Be outer directed.

It's about them. What do they need?

How do you make them feel?

To be attractive is to be attracted.

InteractionGrouchy45 · 2024-09-25T01:26:42+00:00

Take care of your skin, change your mindset, exercise and be confident talking to others

Calm_Masty_8542 · 2024-09-25T08:33:47+00:00

I have the same question but the best i can think of is first thing we can do you to emit the unattractive traits first , thats the first step

Competitive-Scar-377 · 2024-09-25T08:54:38+00:00

Be confident and make them laugh.

Narrow-Ad-7236 · 2024-09-25T01:35:14+00:00

Being attractive is not just about physical appearance but also include other things such as confidence and status(and some stuff I forgot).

burncushlikewood · 2024-09-25T03:30:58+00:00

Sorry are you asking how to become more physically attractive? or to make your personality more attractive? The answer to the first is to work out and eat healthy. The answer to the second, which you already have sort of answered, keep studying do well in school, I have a little anecdotes to share. When I was younger I was very small and short, I hit puberty late then I glowed up big time, I was a late bloomer, you know what my mom told me when I was younger? She said son now the girls in school are going for the popular guys, but if you work hard in school you'll grow up to be successful and the women will flock to you. This was semi right, I got into this community and I absolutely excelled at understanding all the terms and material, but the women had no idea how well I was doing in school! In fact one of my previous GFs was absolutely shocked when I told her I was taking computer science, she said to me quote "that sounds hard are you sure you can do that?" My advice is to make your life exciting and bring energy to your relationships, this will attract the women you want

Brunoclement123 · 2024-09-25T05:42:31+00:00

Attractiveness is purely a matter of looks, improve your face as much as you can

Title	How to become attractive as a man?
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Date	September 25, 2024 12:42 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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