So my wife and I have been separated for about a year now. All things considered, we are cordial and have tried to make things easy for our 2 sons (14y/o of hers that I adopted and 9y/o by both of us). We have a house on the market that she purchased in her name a couple months before we married that I’ve invested thousands in. I’ve told her if it sells just help me pay off a few things and the rest is hers. Nothing really left of value that I care about like TVs and couches.

How do I find an attorney that will help us sign what we have agreed to. 50/50 custody, no child support, 3 on 3 off days. I have a few things like a 401k and state pension that she had mentioned a few times but says she won’t mess with it if she keeps the house. I’m so ready to just move on and not have to worry about being blindsided in 3 years because she doesn’t like my new GF or something. Is it even possible to have an attorney represent us mutually and our requests and just get the divorce and that’s it forever?

I’m sorry for my lack of proper terms, my mind is fried from all this. A 13 year marriage down the drain because of her unfaithfulness and I still have to deal with the legal aspects and don’t know where to start. TIA.