Many dating women seem to not understand when guys say you date and hookup with guys out of your league. Women will only notice the best looking guy in the room, or swipe once in 20 times on a dating app. Women think they are picky and other women aren’t. However, when it comes to casual dating with men they don’t know, they all become super selective. Women end up dating the same subset of guys who usually unknowingly pass them around.

The general reply by women is, what I can attract is in my league. I don’t date short guys because they are mean. You can’t stop me from going after what I’m attracted to. Well I gave a few ugly guys a chance and they didn’t treat me any better.

Women date top down on their choices. Ever have a girl agree to a date, then bail, something better came up. Have a girl you’re chatting with that suddenly dropped, Chad just matched and you’re out. Women sit on dating apps and have 10k likes, then only focus on the top 3 most desirable ones. Guys would do the same if the could, so what are you going to do.

Here’s where it gets confusing for women, but they actually know what they are doing.

If a guy knows a girl likes him and really wants to get with him. Him buying her drinks at a nice place is no problem. He will act like a charming gentleman and tell her everything she wants to hear. He will be asking her questions, getting her to talk about her life and be totally interested. Then when he gets with her and it’s fun he’ll probably want to do it again. Until he’s bored, then he will stop talking and find another date and repeat it again. Women come out and say, all guys are players, whenever I date guys off apps they just want sex primarily. You tell them no, that’s just what guys do when they get a girl they don’t want a relationship with. Meaning you’re picking players or guys out of your league who see you as temporary entertainment.

Then women say well it’s hard to tell difference. Women will willingly give themselves and their motives away to desirable men. When the man knows he’s going to get her, he acts much sweeter to her, he’s not going to mess this up. This is why women say it’s so hard to tell whether they will end up being used or not. When the guy is wanted he will reciprocate better to her, even if he sees her as a temporary option, he will say he wants to get married if that’s what he thinks she wants to hear.

If a woman shows up to a date and the girl is acting frigid or off putting, I’m acting like a dick back and splitting the meal and out. This is how women act when the they don’t want you too bad. If she wants him she puts o ln her best face and makes it easy for him.

Women create this self fulfilling prophecy that men out of her league are actually better options by being more interested in them.