Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date

Physical_Run_1257 · 2024-10-26T09:35:00+00:00

Bro, you said it yourself, be flirty. Try to get laid but don't expect to get laid.

jupiter_and_mars · 2024-10-26T15:51:22+00:00

How do you have that much success with dating apps? I usually have the same problem of not flirting and touching them enough.

Practical-Macaroon38 · 2024-10-26T21:39:14+00:00

If you aren’t at least a tiny bit excited towards these dates then you’re way too focused on getting laid & not as focused on having fun.

At the end of the day, dates are meant to be fun & you should enjoy having conversations with the women that you’re seeing.

If you’re just going into auto-pilot mode then they can sense this & then your date just doesn’t stand out to them.. EVEN IF YOU KISSED.

Add a little bit of emotion, change up the setting, mix in some humor or unique topics, you need to stimulate your mind because if you’re kinda bored then wtf do you think they feel?

Probably the same shit, if not more boredom.

If you feel like you guys are just “hanging out” then so are they. Hanging out with someone without flirting is basically just like hanging out with a friend, not a date.

You need to build a meaningful & unique connection with them that makes them excited about getting to see you again. You’re probably not showing enough emotion & you’re not stimulating their brain with deep thought.

If I were you, I’d take a break for a few days & then reduce your dates to 1 or 2 per week but please… mix up your routine. Don’t focus so much on getting laid & then you’ll see that these dates will start going better than you think.

Small-Acanthaceae567 · 2024-10-28T10:50:26+00:00

Flirting is more than just Kino, it's also about conversation, body language and such, if I had to guess, your too comfortable, which to them comes off as either player or not interested.

I'd also say that you might want to look at making yourself more natural maybe? It's hard to tell. I have never had such an issue repeatedly (though recently I did have a similar experiance) but in my case there was a list of things I didn't do well, and was still emotionally insecure/up and down due to my ex and life situations.

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-26T09:53:53+00:00

How about being more picky and choose girls that you would feel some complementing synergy with? Also, in terms of dates you should opt for more unique and strong experiences, don't get into some generic conversation or activities, but try to create circumstances where you can act naturally and honestly and check if you are for real a good match for each other.

Title	Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date
Author	Mantagena
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	October 26, 2024 9:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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